Saturday, May 2, 2009

How A Rebound Relationship Can Work In Your Favor

If you have broken up with the love of your life and she is in a rebound relationship, how do you get her back?

A rebound relationship is one where she is dating someone else to get over you. Rebound relationships keep people from having to deal with the emotions of breaking up. They’re used to help people move on from a real love.

And that’s the key to getting your ex back. She’s in a rebound relationship to deal with losing you.

It does not matter why she lost you. It doesn’t matter if it is your fault or hers. It doesn’t even matter who actually called the relationship off. What matters is that you have a real love.

Because virtually all relationships founded on real love can be saved.

If she’s in a rebound relationship, she will be focusing on what is wrong with your relationship. If you were a “good guy” she’ll probably be hanging out with a “bad boy.” If you were into philosophy, he’ll be watching Monday Night Football. Or, vice versa.

The fact that she is actually focusing on the differences in your styles is actually good for you for two reasons. Her attention is still focused on you even when she’s with the new guy. And, it gives you a chance to see what she’s looking for.

If she’s with someone as different from you as possible, it means that she was missing something in your relationship. You can use the time she’s with rebound man to improve yourself.

Let the rebound relationship run its course. Because, as she spends time with the new guy, she’ll start to see the flaws in him. After a month or so with rebound man, you’ll start to look pretty good.

That’s why you don’t want to crawl back to her right away. Let her develop the idea that she misses the good things in the relationship. When she’s ready to make a move, be magnanimous. Welcome her back graciously. Be a new and improved boyfriend, but don’t do the chasing.

Here are some specific steps to take when your ex is in a rebound relationship:

· Don’t try to convince her that you are the love of her life. Let her discover this on her own.

· Don’t apologize profusely. If you did something wrong, you can say you’re sorry. Once. But move on. She knows the real reason she loves you.

· Don’t make promises to change. You are who you are and that’s who she fell in love with.

· Don’t try to make her see that it wasn’t your fault. She will come to appreciate that over time – but only if you haven’t made her invest energy in defending her position that it was your fault.

· Never, ever beg her to take you back.

When you ex starts going out with someone just after you break up, she’s in a rebound relationship. You can make up with her and get back together. Don’t despair. The rebound relationship is a sign that she’s still in love with you.

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Can you answer "Yes" to any of these questions?

Are you a male or female who feels like you’ve lost your game?

Do you look in the mirror and see creases and wrinkles deepening?

Do you see the bags under your eyes getting heavier?

Do you see the skin on your face and neck beginning to sag?

Feel helpless to stop the aging process?

Do you feel like life is passing you by as you’ve got older, or that time has taken its toll on your face?

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DO YOU FEEL LIKE THIS?
Plastic surgery is expensive e.g. It might cost a minimum of $10 000 to have a proper facelift, and payment is usually required in advance as it is not covered by medical insurance.

Plastic surgery does not restore color and better skin tone.

Plastic surgery does not treat the CAUSE of sagging skin and lines, which is due to poor blood circulation and weak underlying tissue.

Plastic surgery can change the character, and even the shape of your face. Some people have that surprised look if the forehead skin or skin around the eyes has been surgically pulled too tight!

Plastic surgery will not make a person look chronologically younger ----- You will not appear to look younger over a period of time unless the surgery is conducted in stages.

Plastic surgery does not eliminate stress and poor circulation. The energy points and channels will remain neglected and not functioning at their optimum.

Plastic surgery does not necessarily restore beauty and youth to the face. Ignoring the causes of aging, which is due to ever-weakening cell regeneration, and poor blood circulation will make the surgical facelift temporary and only SKIN DEEP!

Plastic surgery opens the patient to risk, like any other surgery. Some people have been the victims of botched facelifts, even horribly disfigured.

There is also a risk of infection.

There is always pain, or at least some discomfort. Then there’s the bandages and skin discoloration following the surgery, which is always unpleasant.

Plastic surgery is only temporary and repeat surgeries will be required from as little as 18 months after the first surgery because the skin will begin to sag over the underlying tissue.


Plastic surgery can interfere with the energy channels of the head, face, neck and other parts of the body.

A non-surgical facelift is the only solution...
A non-surgical facelift is the best alternative...

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  • Where to locate the 20 acupressure points on the face, neck, hands, and arms. One minute massaging on each point.


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