Do you want to get back together with your ex? Don’t write off the relationship just because she dumped you.
Women are fickle creatures. In 3 out of every 4 break ups, it is the woman who calls it off. But, many times they’re open to re-establishing the relationship. Breaking up may not have been a well thought out decision, but they are loathe to admit they are wrong and come back to you themselves.
Part of your job is to figure out what went wrong and change it. If she was bored in the relationship, you need to spice things up. If she was looking for a flashier guy, a makeover might be in order. And, if you were too needy, you might just need to back off for a time.
Right now, if you want to get back together with ex, you need to show her that you are exactly the kind of guy she wants to date.
One of the ways to get back together with your ex is to show her that you are an in demand kind of guy. Every girl says she wants to be unique. They look for “unique” styles. But you will quickly notice that what they really want is a “unique” look that is just like all of their friends’ looks.
So, to become the in-demand guy, you have to start dating in-demand girls. In fact, dating her close friends will actually make her want to get back together with you.
If you are uncomfortable dating people who might continue to be in your life after you get back together with your ex, you can at least flirt with them. When you see your ex with a pack of her friends, don’t pay any attention to her. Instead, lavish attention on her friends. If she has a particularly plain friend, spend the most time with her. That’s one way to get back together with your ex.
Look at how she reacts to you when other guys are around. When someone puts you down, does she stand up for you? That is a good sign that she is still into you and will welcome you back into her life.
When you want to get back together with your ex, you need to realize that there is a new power relationship at play. You no longer belong to each other exclusively. Instead, you are two independent spheres rotating around the other.
Many guys don’t realize that this power shift has occurred. While they are down in the dumps about the break up, they don’t change their behavior pattern toward their ex. This is a big mistake.
When you want to get back together with your ex, you will take advantage of the shift in power. You will woo her by changing the things that she doesn’t like about you or the relationship, become the in-demand guy that all girls want to date, and be a little bit unavailable to her. If these things don’t work, she probably has moved on and you won’t have much hope of jump starting anything.
However, in almost all cases, because women are fickle creatures, you can get back together with your ex.
For more great relationship tips visit this site:
www.MagicOfMakingUp.com
Sunday, May 31, 2009
Make Money With Google
More in the series by Wade Winger on how you can make money using Google and Clickbank.
-Lesson #2-
Ok, we learned all about affiliate programs in the first lesson.
We now need a way to find the best affiliate products to market.
There are thousands of affiliate programs out there to choose from. Any product you can think of has an affiliate program.
There are affiliate programs for things like books, cars, computer games, computer programs, porn sites, prescription drugs and ebooks. You name it and there is an affiliate program for it.
You can even join an affiliate program for selling property on the moon!! So how do you go about choosing the right programs? Well, there are many factors to looks at.
Here are six characteristics to look at when choosing an affiliate program:
1) High payouts - Would you rather be paid $1 or $20 every time you make a sale? $20 of course!! I like to work with affiliate programs that payout anywhere from $15 - $60 for each customer conversion. Don't get me wrong, there is a time and place for $1 payout programs and as entrepreneurs you should always keep your eyes open for opportunities, but from personal experience, the higher payouts seem to work best for people just starting out.
2) Effective product sales page - Your success as an affiliate depends highly on how effective the sales website is for the affiliate program you belong to. I'm not talking about your personal website; I'm talking about the owners of the affiliate program themselves, the site you are sending people to. If you are sending people to a website that is constructed very poorly and has a low sales conversion rate, you are not going to make any profits. But if you send people from your website to a website that captures the customers attention and effectively conveniences them to buy the product, you will make much more profits per customer.
3) The amount of competition - If there is too much competition in the affiliate program that you join, it will be harder for you to make money. When there are too many affiliates vying for the same customers, the profits that can be made by one individual become less and less. I would say that it's a good idea for beginners to stir away from the really competitive products. You will have a much better time with programs that have relatively low competition. Don't get me wrong, you can compete in any affiliate program but you need to learn certain skills, to turn a profit.
4) Payout Dates - Be sure to check how often the affiliate program will be sending you pay checks. You don't want to be stuck waiting 3-6 months to be paid. I usually like to stick with affiliate programs that pay every 1-2 weeks. Sometimes I will join affiliate programs that pay every month, but anything over one month is just too long to wait for. You have to think about your advertising budget. If you only have enough money to advertise for two weeks, and you get paid every three months, you are going to run out of money to advertise with. The quicker you get paid, the quicker you can take that money and reinvest it to increase your profits.
5) Payout Minimums - Almost every affiliate program has a minimum payout amount. Most of the time affiliates programs will require that you earn $25 - $100 before they will ever send you a check. This is fine, because you should be able to hit this amount easily. If it's more than $300 then I would stir away from that program.
Sometimes you will join an affiliate program and make some money, but you may decide for some reason that that particular program is not working out. If you did not hit the minimum payout then you will never be paid. Another reason to pick a low minimum payout is that it may take you awhile to hit the minimum, so the lower the payout level the quicker you will get your money.
6) In Demand Products - This is a very important thing to look for in affiliate programs. Choose something that people really want and find a way to give it to them. For example: millions of people in the U.S. feel they are overweight, and want to lose that weight.
It's your job to find an affiliate program that fits these peoples needs. Sell them diet pills or workout tapes, even workout equipment. Here's another example: Many people want to find someone to date. Well you've seen all the online dating services. Guess what, most of those have affiliate programs that you can join. Direct a person who wants a date to that dating service website and you will make a nice commission.
You now know what to look for in an affiliate product, so now we need to go find an affiliate product to market.
This is were ClickBank comes into play.
ClickBank is actually an Internet "affiliate network". Affiliate networks combine thousands of Internet affiliate programs into one simple website.
So instead of signing up for numerous affiliate programs, which can be a hassle, you only need to sign up once with a site like ClickBank. This will allow you to have access to over 11,000+ products and services to market.
ClickBank is actually a special type of affiliate network in that it only deals with digital products. When a customer buys through ClickBank, they receive their purchase instantly over the Internet.
So what makes ClickBank so special? Several reasons:
- ClickBank is very easy for beginners to learn
- ClickBank offers many high quality affiliate products to market
- ClickBank offers extremely high commissions (up to 75%)
- Many people are already members of ClickBank
- Getting affiliate links is very simple and fast
- Stats are in real time and can be checked 24/7
- ClickBank sends commission checks every two weeks
To check out the thousands of products that ClickBank offers to affiliate marketers, check out this link:
http://clickbank.com/marketplace
To sign up as a affiliate marketer with ClickBank, check out this
link:
https://ssl.clickbank.net/signup
With ClickBank, you can now scour thousands of affiliate products to market.
End of lesson #2.
To Your Success,
Wade Winger
http://www.GoogleProfits.com
P.S. Google Profits can show you how to find the most profitable
ClickBank products and how you can market them effectivly to make
huge profits. Get started today!
-Lesson #2-
Ok, we learned all about affiliate programs in the first lesson.
We now need a way to find the best affiliate products to market.
There are thousands of affiliate programs out there to choose from. Any product you can think of has an affiliate program.
There are affiliate programs for things like books, cars, computer games, computer programs, porn sites, prescription drugs and ebooks. You name it and there is an affiliate program for it.
You can even join an affiliate program for selling property on the moon!! So how do you go about choosing the right programs? Well, there are many factors to looks at.
Here are six characteristics to look at when choosing an affiliate program:
1) High payouts - Would you rather be paid $1 or $20 every time you make a sale? $20 of course!! I like to work with affiliate programs that payout anywhere from $15 - $60 for each customer conversion. Don't get me wrong, there is a time and place for $1 payout programs and as entrepreneurs you should always keep your eyes open for opportunities, but from personal experience, the higher payouts seem to work best for people just starting out.
2) Effective product sales page - Your success as an affiliate depends highly on how effective the sales website is for the affiliate program you belong to. I'm not talking about your personal website; I'm talking about the owners of the affiliate program themselves, the site you are sending people to. If you are sending people to a website that is constructed very poorly and has a low sales conversion rate, you are not going to make any profits. But if you send people from your website to a website that captures the customers attention and effectively conveniences them to buy the product, you will make much more profits per customer.
3) The amount of competition - If there is too much competition in the affiliate program that you join, it will be harder for you to make money. When there are too many affiliates vying for the same customers, the profits that can be made by one individual become less and less. I would say that it's a good idea for beginners to stir away from the really competitive products. You will have a much better time with programs that have relatively low competition. Don't get me wrong, you can compete in any affiliate program but you need to learn certain skills, to turn a profit.
4) Payout Dates - Be sure to check how often the affiliate program will be sending you pay checks. You don't want to be stuck waiting 3-6 months to be paid. I usually like to stick with affiliate programs that pay every 1-2 weeks. Sometimes I will join affiliate programs that pay every month, but anything over one month is just too long to wait for. You have to think about your advertising budget. If you only have enough money to advertise for two weeks, and you get paid every three months, you are going to run out of money to advertise with. The quicker you get paid, the quicker you can take that money and reinvest it to increase your profits.
5) Payout Minimums - Almost every affiliate program has a minimum payout amount. Most of the time affiliates programs will require that you earn $25 - $100 before they will ever send you a check. This is fine, because you should be able to hit this amount easily. If it's more than $300 then I would stir away from that program.
Sometimes you will join an affiliate program and make some money, but you may decide for some reason that that particular program is not working out. If you did not hit the minimum payout then you will never be paid. Another reason to pick a low minimum payout is that it may take you awhile to hit the minimum, so the lower the payout level the quicker you will get your money.
6) In Demand Products - This is a very important thing to look for in affiliate programs. Choose something that people really want and find a way to give it to them. For example: millions of people in the U.S. feel they are overweight, and want to lose that weight.
It's your job to find an affiliate program that fits these peoples needs. Sell them diet pills or workout tapes, even workout equipment. Here's another example: Many people want to find someone to date. Well you've seen all the online dating services. Guess what, most of those have affiliate programs that you can join. Direct a person who wants a date to that dating service website and you will make a nice commission.
You now know what to look for in an affiliate product, so now we need to go find an affiliate product to market.
This is were ClickBank comes into play.
ClickBank is actually an Internet "affiliate network". Affiliate networks combine thousands of Internet affiliate programs into one simple website.
So instead of signing up for numerous affiliate programs, which can be a hassle, you only need to sign up once with a site like ClickBank. This will allow you to have access to over 11,000+ products and services to market.
ClickBank is actually a special type of affiliate network in that it only deals with digital products. When a customer buys through ClickBank, they receive their purchase instantly over the Internet.
So what makes ClickBank so special? Several reasons:
- ClickBank is very easy for beginners to learn
- ClickBank offers many high quality affiliate products to market
- ClickBank offers extremely high commissions (up to 75%)
- Many people are already members of ClickBank
- Getting affiliate links is very simple and fast
- Stats are in real time and can be checked 24/7
- ClickBank sends commission checks every two weeks
To check out the thousands of products that ClickBank offers to affiliate marketers, check out this link:
http://clickbank.com/marketplace
To sign up as a affiliate marketer with ClickBank, check out this
link:
https://ssl.clickbank.net/signup
With ClickBank, you can now scour thousands of affiliate products to market.
End of lesson #2.
To Your Success,
Wade Winger
http://www.GoogleProfits.com
P.S. Google Profits can show you how to find the most profitable
ClickBank products and how you can market them effectivly to make
huge profits. Get started today!
How to Train Your Cat - Vocalizations. Is Your Cat Noisy?
Kelly Braid has come out with a new ebook called "Purrfectly Trained Cat". Over the next few days she will share with us some or her secrets.
In this section we are going to discuss some of the ways to stop an excessively vocal cat from being so noisy. One of the most annoying things your cat can do, is to constantly meow to get your attention.
In a cat's world, scent and body language are the primary ways to communicate. However, they have learned that we answer much better to vocal sounds so they have employed this method to communicate with us. Therefore, cats "talk" in order to have their desires met.
When cats begin to meow excessively, people try many methods to stop the behavior. Some of these include picking the cat up and petting her, yelling at her, and locking her in a room. These methods all encourage the cat to continue the attention-seeking behavior. If her needs are met, she will continue to do what works. This is similar to a child who cries until they achieve the desired result.
As with most learned behaviors, the unlearning process will take a bit of time. The first thing you must do is ignore the cat when she begins to meow. Until this point, you have reacted and given her some type of attention whenever she vocalized. Now, you must only reward her when she is silent. If she meows do not scream or yell, simply ignore. When she is silent, shower her with attention, treats and praise. This lets her know which behavior is acceptable.
After a week or two if the behavior continues, a quick spray from a water bottle can be used. She is trying to communicate her need to you, and you need to be present in order for her to do so. Therefore, the water shower will be an effective deterrent.
By following the above guidelines, you'll be taking the first steps toward ending the excessive vocalization.
Of course, there is a lot more to it, and I I couldn't possibly lay out the entire system in this email.
Fortunately, it's all laid out for you in my new eBook:
"Purrfectly Trained Cat-Teach Your Cat to Do What YOU Want"
Not only do my methods work great for cats, they're also fun and
pretty easy.
Here's just a taste of what's revealed in this amazing cat training
eBook:
* The things your cat is trying to tell you with his body
language and other forms of communication, so you know how to deal
with his problem
* Types of aggressive behavior and how to change them so they
work for you
* What causes your cat to be scared or stressed and how to fix it
* The absolute best ways to change bad behaviors forever
* How to eliminate litter box problems and make them disappear
once and for all
* Harness training and how to take your indoor cat outside for
a walk safely, with no complaints
* How your cat can effectively use a human toilet, so you can
get rid of the litter box for good
* Step-by-step instructions to easily train your cat to respond
to commands such as sit, stay, lay down, and many others
* Helping your cat get better, including things to look for
that tell you when it's time to go to the vet
* The single most effective way to correct any behavior
* An easy way to keep your cat from being excessively vocal
and that's not nearly all.
Tomorrow I will talk about a multi-cat household and the disruption
that often occurs when one cat has been away for a period of time,
and then returns.
Purrfectly Trained Cat
In this section we are going to discuss some of the ways to stop an excessively vocal cat from being so noisy. One of the most annoying things your cat can do, is to constantly meow to get your attention.
In a cat's world, scent and body language are the primary ways to communicate. However, they have learned that we answer much better to vocal sounds so they have employed this method to communicate with us. Therefore, cats "talk" in order to have their desires met.
When cats begin to meow excessively, people try many methods to stop the behavior. Some of these include picking the cat up and petting her, yelling at her, and locking her in a room. These methods all encourage the cat to continue the attention-seeking behavior. If her needs are met, she will continue to do what works. This is similar to a child who cries until they achieve the desired result.
As with most learned behaviors, the unlearning process will take a bit of time. The first thing you must do is ignore the cat when she begins to meow. Until this point, you have reacted and given her some type of attention whenever she vocalized. Now, you must only reward her when she is silent. If she meows do not scream or yell, simply ignore. When she is silent, shower her with attention, treats and praise. This lets her know which behavior is acceptable.
After a week or two if the behavior continues, a quick spray from a water bottle can be used. She is trying to communicate her need to you, and you need to be present in order for her to do so. Therefore, the water shower will be an effective deterrent.
By following the above guidelines, you'll be taking the first steps toward ending the excessive vocalization.
Of course, there is a lot more to it, and I I couldn't possibly lay out the entire system in this email.
Fortunately, it's all laid out for you in my new eBook:
"Purrfectly Trained Cat-Teach Your Cat to Do What YOU Want"
Not only do my methods work great for cats, they're also fun and
pretty easy.
Here's just a taste of what's revealed in this amazing cat training
eBook:
* The things your cat is trying to tell you with his body
language and other forms of communication, so you know how to deal
with his problem
* Types of aggressive behavior and how to change them so they
work for you
* What causes your cat to be scared or stressed and how to fix it
* The absolute best ways to change bad behaviors forever
* How to eliminate litter box problems and make them disappear
once and for all
* Harness training and how to take your indoor cat outside for
a walk safely, with no complaints
* How your cat can effectively use a human toilet, so you can
get rid of the litter box for good
* Step-by-step instructions to easily train your cat to respond
to commands such as sit, stay, lay down, and many others
* Helping your cat get better, including things to look for
that tell you when it's time to go to the vet
* The single most effective way to correct any behavior
* An easy way to keep your cat from being excessively vocal
and that's not nearly all.
Tomorrow I will talk about a multi-cat household and the disruption
that often occurs when one cat has been away for a period of time,
and then returns.
Purrfectly Trained Cat
Saturday, May 30, 2009
How To Make Money With Google
In addition to this blog and some other websites I own, I also use Google Adwords with Clickbank products to make a little side income. Actually that is where the bulk of my online income comes from, not my websites. Best part about it is that you don't need to have a website and you don't need to have a product of your own.
Wade Winger wrote a very interesting ebook awhile back that details exactly how to do this. Many people have tried this on their own and have lost a lot of money because they didn't know what they were doing. I myself lost some money in the beginning until I learned the secrets. The truth is that if you start off knowing the trick to doing this you are at very little risk, providing you do exactly what you need to do.
Over the next few days/weeks I'm going to be posting some tips from Wade Winger on how to use Adwords and Clickbank to make money. Hope you enjoy them. Here is the first installment.
-Lesson #1-
So how exactly do you make substantial profits on the Internet?
Well there are literally thousands of ways to earn a living online. But many of those require things that you and I would never have access to such as, corporate bankrolls, and corporate manpower. I'm just a one-man business and I'm guessing that you are too.
So with that in mind I am going to show you a very powerful way to make profits online. With this extremely powerful method, your profit making potential is limitless.
-Intro to Affiliate Programs-
I know many of you are making great profits using affiliate programs, but I need to explain what they are and the power they hold so that everybody is on the same level for the next few lessons.
If you haven't discovered affiliate programs on the Internet yet, you are missing out on an extremely powerful profit-making source.
So what the heck are affiliate programs and how do they work?
Affiliate programs can vary from website to website, but the main idea behind affiliate programs is that a website will pay you for sending them buying customers.
You send people to a website, if they buy something from that website you get a cut of the purchase.
You will usually be paid either a percentage of the sale or a flat rate.
Here is a random list of websites that have affiliate programs. The dollar amount shows how much ONE SINGLE PERSON is earning every month with that affiliate programs.
- Posters.com------------ $5,000/mo
- Sitesell.com------------ $10,000/mo
- 1HideOut.com--------- $3,000/week
- Marketingtips.com---- $8,000/mo
- Gen-fit.com------------ $18,000/mo
- Pillstore.com----------- $50,000/mo
- Keycode.com---------- $5,000/mo
- PartyPoker.com------- $15,000/mo
I could go on forever with these amazing figures.
Everywhere you look, people are making massive profits on the Internet. I'm showing you these figures in hopes that you will get excited about affiliate programs. If you can become successful in just one affiliate program, your life will change dramatically.
I personally am an affiliate with at least 40 different affiliate programs. Granted not all affiliate programs you join will be profitable, but if you can get just a few affiliate programs that are profitable, you can make a ton in profits.
Can you imagine working with ten different affiliate programs that convert 5 - 20 sales a day? If you were paid $15 for each sale, that would mean you could be making $22500-$90000 per month.
Even if you had a bad month and only made one sale everyday for each affiliate, you would still be making over $4500 per month. You may think all of this is outrageous, but trust me; there are tons of people out there just like you and I that are utilizing affiliate programs on the Internet and making huge profits from them.
How can all this be possible? The Internet of course!!! It's possible to advertise to hundreds of millions of people worldwide with the single click of the mouse button. The Internet is probably the most powerful marketing tool in the history of the world. Best of all anyone can use this powerful marketing tool. Anyone with a computer and Internet has access to millions of customers worldwide and the opportunity to convert sales on a very large scale.
It is becoming very evident that affiliate programs will have a huge role in the future of the Internet. Billions if not Trillions of dollars are spent through online purchases every year, and this number will continue to increase at an amazing rate.
It is also forecast that within 2-3 years, 50% of all online sales will be made through the help of affiliate programs. You don't have to be good with math to figure out that there is an enormous opportunity waiting to be tapped.
But don't wait, act now!! Now is the best time to get rolling, if you can establish your self with online affiliate programs now, you will have good positioning to just sit back and watch your profits increase as the Internet continues to grow, which is inevitable.
Now I'm going to tell you the best part about affiliate programs. Once you get everything up and running, you can basically sit back and let the computers and the Internet do everything for you automatically.
You can spend as little as 3 hours a week and still bring in well over $5000/month. Affiliate programs are awesome!!
But remember, the more time you spend working, the more income you will make.
Think of it as a business, try to set some hours aside and write out some goals that need to be accomplished every week. Before you know it you will be making much more than you ever dreamed.
Here are a few more reasons why affiliate programs are so great.
First of all, you don't need your own product. The owner of the affiliate programs will take care of dealing with the customer for you.
They will also collect the payments, shipping and handling of the products, deal with any complaints or questions by customers, they take care of pretty much everything.
The only thing that you have to do is send them customers. When that customer buys, you make a profit. It's as easy and simple as that. Just promote and receive a check.
End of lesson #1.
To Your Success,
Wade Winger
http://www.GoogleProfits.com
Wade Winger wrote a very interesting ebook awhile back that details exactly how to do this. Many people have tried this on their own and have lost a lot of money because they didn't know what they were doing. I myself lost some money in the beginning until I learned the secrets. The truth is that if you start off knowing the trick to doing this you are at very little risk, providing you do exactly what you need to do.
Over the next few days/weeks I'm going to be posting some tips from Wade Winger on how to use Adwords and Clickbank to make money. Hope you enjoy them. Here is the first installment.
-Lesson #1-
So how exactly do you make substantial profits on the Internet?
Well there are literally thousands of ways to earn a living online. But many of those require things that you and I would never have access to such as, corporate bankrolls, and corporate manpower. I'm just a one-man business and I'm guessing that you are too.
So with that in mind I am going to show you a very powerful way to make profits online. With this extremely powerful method, your profit making potential is limitless.
-Intro to Affiliate Programs-
I know many of you are making great profits using affiliate programs, but I need to explain what they are and the power they hold so that everybody is on the same level for the next few lessons.
If you haven't discovered affiliate programs on the Internet yet, you are missing out on an extremely powerful profit-making source.
So what the heck are affiliate programs and how do they work?
Affiliate programs can vary from website to website, but the main idea behind affiliate programs is that a website will pay you for sending them buying customers.
You send people to a website, if they buy something from that website you get a cut of the purchase.
You will usually be paid either a percentage of the sale or a flat rate.
Here is a random list of websites that have affiliate programs. The dollar amount shows how much ONE SINGLE PERSON is earning every month with that affiliate programs.
- Posters.com------------ $5,000/mo
- Sitesell.com------------ $10,000/mo
- 1HideOut.com--------- $3,000/week
- Marketingtips.com---- $8,000/mo
- Gen-fit.com------------ $18,000/mo
- Pillstore.com----------- $50,000/mo
- Keycode.com---------- $5,000/mo
- PartyPoker.com------- $15,000/mo
I could go on forever with these amazing figures.
Everywhere you look, people are making massive profits on the Internet. I'm showing you these figures in hopes that you will get excited about affiliate programs. If you can become successful in just one affiliate program, your life will change dramatically.
I personally am an affiliate with at least 40 different affiliate programs. Granted not all affiliate programs you join will be profitable, but if you can get just a few affiliate programs that are profitable, you can make a ton in profits.
Can you imagine working with ten different affiliate programs that convert 5 - 20 sales a day? If you were paid $15 for each sale, that would mean you could be making $22500-$90000 per month.
Even if you had a bad month and only made one sale everyday for each affiliate, you would still be making over $4500 per month. You may think all of this is outrageous, but trust me; there are tons of people out there just like you and I that are utilizing affiliate programs on the Internet and making huge profits from them.
How can all this be possible? The Internet of course!!! It's possible to advertise to hundreds of millions of people worldwide with the single click of the mouse button. The Internet is probably the most powerful marketing tool in the history of the world. Best of all anyone can use this powerful marketing tool. Anyone with a computer and Internet has access to millions of customers worldwide and the opportunity to convert sales on a very large scale.
It is becoming very evident that affiliate programs will have a huge role in the future of the Internet. Billions if not Trillions of dollars are spent through online purchases every year, and this number will continue to increase at an amazing rate.
It is also forecast that within 2-3 years, 50% of all online sales will be made through the help of affiliate programs. You don't have to be good with math to figure out that there is an enormous opportunity waiting to be tapped.
But don't wait, act now!! Now is the best time to get rolling, if you can establish your self with online affiliate programs now, you will have good positioning to just sit back and watch your profits increase as the Internet continues to grow, which is inevitable.
Now I'm going to tell you the best part about affiliate programs. Once you get everything up and running, you can basically sit back and let the computers and the Internet do everything for you automatically.
You can spend as little as 3 hours a week and still bring in well over $5000/month. Affiliate programs are awesome!!
But remember, the more time you spend working, the more income you will make.
Think of it as a business, try to set some hours aside and write out some goals that need to be accomplished every week. Before you know it you will be making much more than you ever dreamed.
Here are a few more reasons why affiliate programs are so great.
First of all, you don't need your own product. The owner of the affiliate programs will take care of dealing with the customer for you.
They will also collect the payments, shipping and handling of the products, deal with any complaints or questions by customers, they take care of pretty much everything.
The only thing that you have to do is send them customers. When that customer buys, you make a profit. It's as easy and simple as that. Just promote and receive a check.
End of lesson #1.
To Your Success,
Wade Winger
http://www.GoogleProfits.com
How to Train Your Cat
Kelly Braid has come out with a new ebook called "Purrfectly Trained Cat". Over the next few days sshe will share with us some or her secrets.
Training your cat can be easy and fun...if you know the right way to do it.
Think back to when you first brought your little bundle of joy home. Did you have visions of him curled up in your lap, happily purring and behaving himself?
Believe it or not, that cat does exist. With just a little help from you, he can be the cat you always wanted.
You can learn more about that in my new ebook:
It reveals my entire cat training system and you might be interested in how it works.
It's not about:
1. Yelling and screaming to get him to change
2. Spending hours each day trying to fix his problems
3. Spending a lot of money on a cat behavior specialist
Here's what it IS about:
1. Learning steps you can take to keep you cat off your tables
and counters
2. Training him fun tricks that most people think only dogs can do
3. Keeping his claws off of your furniture and on his scratching
post
4. How to keep him away from your houseplants
5. Keeping his teeth away from you
6. Fixing litter box problems once and for all
7. Enjoying your cat and having fun with him
The reason it's so effective is because it's based on learning why your cat is behaving the way he is and how to use positive reinforcement to get him to do what you want him to do. This will keep him from becoming afraid of you and get him to WANT to do things to get a reward.
ALWAYS use positive reinforcement such as play time, cuddles, treats or petting. Physical punishment will not work! Many errors are made with cats because humans think they will respond like dogs. Dogs are pack animals and cats are not. With dogs, you can take advantage of this mentality by positioning yourself as the pack leader. Cats on the other hand, only form social groups by necessity and their organization depends on acknowledging territory as opposed to a leader.
Using physical punishment as a way to train your cat will only cause your cat to become afraid or aggressive, sometimes towards you or sometimes redirected towards the object you are trying to keep him from. For example, swatting your cat each time he approaches your new baby will generally cause him to become aggressive towards the baby. Instead, your cat should be allowed the opportunity to sniff the baby and rub up against its car seat or carrier, thus marking it as his.
The old story we have all heard of a cat smothering a baby in its crib is just an urban legend. Your cat is just curious! Allow him the opportunity to check out the baby, and then redirect his attention to something else and praise him. This is your best course of action.
Another problem with using physical punishment is that it will only encourage your cat to stop the bad behavior when you are present. He will learn quite quickly that the behavior can be performed when you are not around as he knows that no punishment will be forthcoming.
Tomorrow, I'll provide some tips you can use to stop excessive vocalization.
Kelly Braid
"Purrfectly Trained Cat"
Training your cat can be easy and fun...if you know the right way to do it.
Think back to when you first brought your little bundle of joy home. Did you have visions of him curled up in your lap, happily purring and behaving himself?
Believe it or not, that cat does exist. With just a little help from you, he can be the cat you always wanted.
You can learn more about that in my new ebook:
It reveals my entire cat training system and you might be interested in how it works.
It's not about:
1. Yelling and screaming to get him to change
2. Spending hours each day trying to fix his problems
3. Spending a lot of money on a cat behavior specialist
Here's what it IS about:
1. Learning steps you can take to keep you cat off your tables
and counters
2. Training him fun tricks that most people think only dogs can do
3. Keeping his claws off of your furniture and on his scratching
post
4. How to keep him away from your houseplants
5. Keeping his teeth away from you
6. Fixing litter box problems once and for all
7. Enjoying your cat and having fun with him
The reason it's so effective is because it's based on learning why your cat is behaving the way he is and how to use positive reinforcement to get him to do what you want him to do. This will keep him from becoming afraid of you and get him to WANT to do things to get a reward.
ALWAYS use positive reinforcement such as play time, cuddles, treats or petting. Physical punishment will not work! Many errors are made with cats because humans think they will respond like dogs. Dogs are pack animals and cats are not. With dogs, you can take advantage of this mentality by positioning yourself as the pack leader. Cats on the other hand, only form social groups by necessity and their organization depends on acknowledging territory as opposed to a leader.
Using physical punishment as a way to train your cat will only cause your cat to become afraid or aggressive, sometimes towards you or sometimes redirected towards the object you are trying to keep him from. For example, swatting your cat each time he approaches your new baby will generally cause him to become aggressive towards the baby. Instead, your cat should be allowed the opportunity to sniff the baby and rub up against its car seat or carrier, thus marking it as his.
The old story we have all heard of a cat smothering a baby in its crib is just an urban legend. Your cat is just curious! Allow him the opportunity to check out the baby, and then redirect his attention to something else and praise him. This is your best course of action.
Another problem with using physical punishment is that it will only encourage your cat to stop the bad behavior when you are present. He will learn quite quickly that the behavior can be performed when you are not around as he knows that no punishment will be forthcoming.
Tomorrow, I'll provide some tips you can use to stop excessive vocalization.
Kelly Braid
"Purrfectly Trained Cat"
Five Most Important Things to Remember About Dating Girls
Everyone does it. Not everyone loves it. Whether you enjoy dating or find it stressful and horrible, you know that if you are ever going to find the one person who can stop your dating life forever, you have to do it. Gentlemen, you simply have to date girls if you are ever going to find the perfect one for you. So, here is some good advice for you.
Successful dating can be broken down into the five most important things about dating girls.They are:
Girls are not guys. They do not think it is fun to make noises by placing their hands under their armpits and acting like a winged creature. Even if they are drunk, they don’t like this. Save this type of behavior for guy’s night.
Girls are not guys. They do not think it is cool to brag about your previous relationship conquests. They do not want to know about the ditzy blonde who had nothing to say but had the most amazing rack ever created. Nor do they think it is great to have their guy greeted by every woman in the place. Take your date to a different place just to be on the safe side and never, never, never mention your ex-girlfriend.
Girls are not guys. They do not like to see you show up at their door in your ratty old jeans with a cheap five-buck pizza in hand. Trust me on this one. Maybe later – way later, like after the kids become teenagers – it will be okay for this kind of thing to happen. But for now, please, guys: take a shower, put on something nice like khakis and a pullover shirt, and have flowers in hand instead of greasy fast food.
Girls are not guys. They do not love it when their date pulls out buy-one-get-one-free coupons at the restaurant cash register. There is nothing wrong with a bargain, especially in these tough economic times, but use those freebies when you go out with your mom (who will love your thriftiness) or your best buddy (who wouldn’t notice or care how you paid). Don’t make your date think that she is not worth full price.
Girls are not guys. They do not find burping and farting contests hilariously interesting and entertaining. Who can come up with most-silent-but-most-deadly one without any prior warning is nothing to be proud of, according to the female half of the population. Neither is it way cool to be able to belch out the melody to “The Star-Spangled Banner.” Again, save it for football night with the frat brothers.
Remembering the five most important things to remember about dating girls will take you farther than anything else when it comes to having a great time on your dates. The five most important things to remember about dating girls will also allow you to get more than one date with the same lady. There are lots of people who will offer you lots of advice about dating, and even some who will simply say, “Be yourself.”
That is not terrible advice, but trust me, if being yourself includes any of the forbidden behavior in the five most important things to remember when dating girls list, don’t be yourself. Be better. Remember these five most important things about dating girls and have a better dating life.
For more great relationship tips visit this site:
www.MagicOfMakingUp.com
Successful dating can be broken down into the five most important things about dating girls.They are:
Girls are not guys. They do not think it is fun to make noises by placing their hands under their armpits and acting like a winged creature. Even if they are drunk, they don’t like this. Save this type of behavior for guy’s night.
Girls are not guys. They do not think it is cool to brag about your previous relationship conquests. They do not want to know about the ditzy blonde who had nothing to say but had the most amazing rack ever created. Nor do they think it is great to have their guy greeted by every woman in the place. Take your date to a different place just to be on the safe side and never, never, never mention your ex-girlfriend.
Girls are not guys. They do not like to see you show up at their door in your ratty old jeans with a cheap five-buck pizza in hand. Trust me on this one. Maybe later – way later, like after the kids become teenagers – it will be okay for this kind of thing to happen. But for now, please, guys: take a shower, put on something nice like khakis and a pullover shirt, and have flowers in hand instead of greasy fast food.
Girls are not guys. They do not love it when their date pulls out buy-one-get-one-free coupons at the restaurant cash register. There is nothing wrong with a bargain, especially in these tough economic times, but use those freebies when you go out with your mom (who will love your thriftiness) or your best buddy (who wouldn’t notice or care how you paid). Don’t make your date think that she is not worth full price.
Girls are not guys. They do not find burping and farting contests hilariously interesting and entertaining. Who can come up with most-silent-but-most-deadly one without any prior warning is nothing to be proud of, according to the female half of the population. Neither is it way cool to be able to belch out the melody to “The Star-Spangled Banner.” Again, save it for football night with the frat brothers.
Remembering the five most important things to remember about dating girls will take you farther than anything else when it comes to having a great time on your dates. The five most important things to remember about dating girls will also allow you to get more than one date with the same lady. There are lots of people who will offer you lots of advice about dating, and even some who will simply say, “Be yourself.”
That is not terrible advice, but trust me, if being yourself includes any of the forbidden behavior in the five most important things to remember when dating girls list, don’t be yourself. Be better. Remember these five most important things about dating girls and have a better dating life.
For more great relationship tips visit this site:
www.MagicOfMakingUp.com
Friday, May 29, 2009
Why does genealogy matter?
Perhaps today it doesn't matter as much as it once did, especially in this country where - according to legend and tradition - every person at birth gets to start fresh in America. He stands or falls on his own merits, without regard to his family status (Okay! So this is in theory!)
But historically speaking, genealogy was an essential study. After all, it was the method of determining inheritance - especially with nobility. Imagine the need to discover the next heir in line to a throne if the king had no direct son or daughter to pass his rule down to. Detailed and accurate genealogical records were of the essence to ensure the proper individuals received the throne.
As you can expect, even with the utmost care, many times in history more than one genealogical record would suddenly appear . . . . throwing the process of crowning the next heir into bedlam.
But then again - maybe genealogy is still a vital instrument in understanding family histories. In the decades immediately following World War II, families found genealogy instrumental in tracing members displaced by the many tragic facets of the war.
There are other reasons families may get separated as well. Consider famines where some members must flee the country in order to survive. A mother may move away with her children in order to keep them alive. Genealogy can play a role in reuniting of families, or provide clues to the existence of hidden genetic diseases.
Perhaps, as in the events leading up to World War II (and beyond), members of families leave in order to save children or the elderly from undue social persecution . . . or assured death.
In these cases, genealogy plays a major role in making fractured families whole again . . . even if the current family members don't know that they have members missing. Thirty some years ago, a novel, based on a stunningly simple idea of genealogy, gave many African-Americans a new common ancestor, Kunte Kinte, the main character of Alex Haley's book Roots.
In Tip #3, we'll learn about two of the most important documents you'll use as a genealogist. In the meantime, I'd like to leave you with another fascinating piece of Which President is Related to Whom?
Millard Fillmore, famous for . . . well, being the thirteenth president of the United States (talk about an unlucky break!), was related to the Adams family. He was the fourth cousin three times removed of President John Adams; and fifth cousin twice removed of John Quincy Adams.
VoodooGenealogy.com
But historically speaking, genealogy was an essential study. After all, it was the method of determining inheritance - especially with nobility. Imagine the need to discover the next heir in line to a throne if the king had no direct son or daughter to pass his rule down to. Detailed and accurate genealogical records were of the essence to ensure the proper individuals received the throne.
As you can expect, even with the utmost care, many times in history more than one genealogical record would suddenly appear . . . . throwing the process of crowning the next heir into bedlam.
But then again - maybe genealogy is still a vital instrument in understanding family histories. In the decades immediately following World War II, families found genealogy instrumental in tracing members displaced by the many tragic facets of the war.
There are other reasons families may get separated as well. Consider famines where some members must flee the country in order to survive. A mother may move away with her children in order to keep them alive. Genealogy can play a role in reuniting of families, or provide clues to the existence of hidden genetic diseases.
Perhaps, as in the events leading up to World War II (and beyond), members of families leave in order to save children or the elderly from undue social persecution . . . or assured death.
In these cases, genealogy plays a major role in making fractured families whole again . . . even if the current family members don't know that they have members missing. Thirty some years ago, a novel, based on a stunningly simple idea of genealogy, gave many African-Americans a new common ancestor, Kunte Kinte, the main character of Alex Haley's book Roots.
In Tip #3, we'll learn about two of the most important documents you'll use as a genealogist. In the meantime, I'd like to leave you with another fascinating piece of Which President is Related to Whom?
Millard Fillmore, famous for . . . well, being the thirteenth president of the United States (talk about an unlucky break!), was related to the Adams family. He was the fourth cousin three times removed of President John Adams; and fifth cousin twice removed of John Quincy Adams.
VoodooGenealogy.com
Thursday, May 28, 2009
Survive In Place Urban Survival Guide - How To Increase Your Awareness By Becoming The Hunter!
Here is Sample lesson from "Survive In Place", one of the best urban survival guides you can get. Packed full of urban survival tips, this guide instructs you on how to create a survival plan. Detailed lists of what survival supplies you'll need to create a comprehensive emergency survival kit as well as food survival kits. This is the official urban survial guide that you should not be without.
Here's that sample lesson:
I believe it’s important to develop your armed and unarmed skills, but when it comes to violence, luck can play a significant role. As a former no-holds-barred fighter (before MMA was regulated,) I saw and experienced how quickly a fighter with superior skills could be defeated by a newbie who got lucky.
If they’d fight 100 times, the superior fighter would probably win 90 times or more, but the newbie still has a chance.
With violent encounters, there is no referee or rules and a lucky cut, stab, or shot can kill you, even if you eventually stop the threat.
Although it sounds overly simplistic, one of the best ways to survive a violent encounter is to avoid violent encounters all-together.
One of the best ways to avoid violent encounters is to train your mind to recognize criminals, and the quickest way to do this is to start thinking like one.
For the next several days pretend that you are a mugger. As you go about your daily business, picture how you would bushwhack someone in the various places in which you find yourself.
If you live in an apartment, where in the building or parking facilities would you hide if you were going to attack someone? With a little practice, you’ll be amazed at how many spots in which you might be able to hide.
Start at home and then move your attention to your place of employment. Pay attention to those areas where you would normally be by yourself. The parking lot. Even the restroom. Pay attention to which stalls are the most vulnerable.
Start watching how you open doors. In particular, note where you’re looking, which arm you use, and how that helps/hinders your ability to react to someone on the other side.
Most crimes occur outside of your dwelling or place of business. Elevators, garages, building entrances and exits offer criminals opportunities to take you by surprise.
After you’ve learned to spot the ideal physical settings for a crime, you need to spot potential criminals.
You need to pay attention to the physical mannerism of potential bad guys.
When you see a person approaching you, ask yourself “is he dressed appropriately for the circumstances?” Is he wearing baggy clothing to hide a weapon? Do his shoes match his clothing? If he’s wearing running shoes with nice slacks and shirt, be careful. Is he wearing a hat and sunglasses that go out of their way to hide his face?
Don’t be afraid to look people straight in the eye. You want to know if they’re checking you out as a possible victim. Does the potential bad guy have his hands in his pockets, perhaps holding a weapon? Does he appear nervous, sweating or breathing heavily?
Most attacks come from behind, so learn to expand your field of vision.
Most of us tend to stare when we look at something. Here’s a simple exercise you can use to break this habit and expand your field a vision.
Look at an object in the room you’re in. Now, without moving your eyes or head, what do you see out of the sides of your eyes? How about top and bottom?
It’s amazing how much more you see when you pay attention to your peripheral vision. Imagine a hose nozzle that can be adjusted back and forth from a wide spray to a concentrated stream. When you need to focus on something, tighten the nozzle and then quickly adjust your vision back to a wide spray.
As you develop your vision, with a little twist of your head you will be able to scan almost 360 degrees around you.
No one will ever be able to sneak up on you again. Try it and see for yourself.
Most people have never seen a real criminal in person. So as part of your training you’ve got to get out and see the bad guys, learn how they think and act.
When Rick Jones joined the L.A. County Sheriffs Department he was being groomed for undercover work with L.A.’s most notorious gangs. To prepare him for that assignment, he was assigned to work in one of California’s toughest prisons. Why?
Because you get to see the worst that society has to offer in terms of vicious criminals — and they’re all in one place.
Dep. Jones was able to observe and study the behavior of killers, rapists, muggers, robbers, and a special group of violence prone people referred to as EDP’s (emotionally disturbed people).
In time Jones became an expert in spotting criminals and categorizing them according to their specialty and propensity for violence.
Today, whether Rick Jones walks into a restaurant, bar or other place of business or simply walks down the street, he quickly sizes up people he meets. If he senses trouble he knows what to expect and he’s ready for it.
Here’s the next best thing you can do to learn the same kind of lessons Rick Jones did.
Call your local police office (or a friend who’s in law enforcement) and ask if you can do a “ride-along” with them. Try to find someone who is a “beat cop” and who regularly runs into bad situations. It won’t do much good to ride with a detective or an officer doing traffic stops.
You can also spend some time in the local criminal court. Spending a few hours a day, or night, over several days will give you a great education when it comes to knowing who the bad guys are and understanding their behavior.
By watching these people you get a feel for what they’re like, the way they move, act and THE WAY THEY WATCH OTHER PEOPLE.
Most criminals are petty thieves and not very dangerous. What you’re looking for is a way of spotting those who are mean, sadistic or emotionally disturbed. They are the violent offenders who will rob you first and then shoot you just for the fun of it. They are the ones you want to spot early on. You want plenty of time to either avoid, evade or otherwise deal with these people.
After a little practice in criminal court, it’s time to go to your favorite mall or even a busy street corner. Find a spot from which you can watch people. Then repeat the exercise, only this time your picking out the bad guys from the general population. See how easy it gets to “BE ALERT” once you know what to look for.
I hope you enjoyed this sample lesson, and if you haven’t yet, I look forward to you signing up for the full 12 week online course at www.SurviveInPlace.com
Here's that sample lesson:
I believe it’s important to develop your armed and unarmed skills, but when it comes to violence, luck can play a significant role. As a former no-holds-barred fighter (before MMA was regulated,) I saw and experienced how quickly a fighter with superior skills could be defeated by a newbie who got lucky.
If they’d fight 100 times, the superior fighter would probably win 90 times or more, but the newbie still has a chance.
With violent encounters, there is no referee or rules and a lucky cut, stab, or shot can kill you, even if you eventually stop the threat.
Although it sounds overly simplistic, one of the best ways to survive a violent encounter is to avoid violent encounters all-together.
One of the best ways to avoid violent encounters is to train your mind to recognize criminals, and the quickest way to do this is to start thinking like one.
For the next several days pretend that you are a mugger. As you go about your daily business, picture how you would bushwhack someone in the various places in which you find yourself.
If you live in an apartment, where in the building or parking facilities would you hide if you were going to attack someone? With a little practice, you’ll be amazed at how many spots in which you might be able to hide.
Start at home and then move your attention to your place of employment. Pay attention to those areas where you would normally be by yourself. The parking lot. Even the restroom. Pay attention to which stalls are the most vulnerable.
Start watching how you open doors. In particular, note where you’re looking, which arm you use, and how that helps/hinders your ability to react to someone on the other side.
Most crimes occur outside of your dwelling or place of business. Elevators, garages, building entrances and exits offer criminals opportunities to take you by surprise.
After you’ve learned to spot the ideal physical settings for a crime, you need to spot potential criminals.
You need to pay attention to the physical mannerism of potential bad guys.
When you see a person approaching you, ask yourself “is he dressed appropriately for the circumstances?” Is he wearing baggy clothing to hide a weapon? Do his shoes match his clothing? If he’s wearing running shoes with nice slacks and shirt, be careful. Is he wearing a hat and sunglasses that go out of their way to hide his face?
Don’t be afraid to look people straight in the eye. You want to know if they’re checking you out as a possible victim. Does the potential bad guy have his hands in his pockets, perhaps holding a weapon? Does he appear nervous, sweating or breathing heavily?
Most attacks come from behind, so learn to expand your field of vision.
Most of us tend to stare when we look at something. Here’s a simple exercise you can use to break this habit and expand your field a vision.
Look at an object in the room you’re in. Now, without moving your eyes or head, what do you see out of the sides of your eyes? How about top and bottom?
It’s amazing how much more you see when you pay attention to your peripheral vision. Imagine a hose nozzle that can be adjusted back and forth from a wide spray to a concentrated stream. When you need to focus on something, tighten the nozzle and then quickly adjust your vision back to a wide spray.
As you develop your vision, with a little twist of your head you will be able to scan almost 360 degrees around you.
No one will ever be able to sneak up on you again. Try it and see for yourself.
Most people have never seen a real criminal in person. So as part of your training you’ve got to get out and see the bad guys, learn how they think and act.
When Rick Jones joined the L.A. County Sheriffs Department he was being groomed for undercover work with L.A.’s most notorious gangs. To prepare him for that assignment, he was assigned to work in one of California’s toughest prisons. Why?
Because you get to see the worst that society has to offer in terms of vicious criminals — and they’re all in one place.
Dep. Jones was able to observe and study the behavior of killers, rapists, muggers, robbers, and a special group of violence prone people referred to as EDP’s (emotionally disturbed people).
In time Jones became an expert in spotting criminals and categorizing them according to their specialty and propensity for violence.
Today, whether Rick Jones walks into a restaurant, bar or other place of business or simply walks down the street, he quickly sizes up people he meets. If he senses trouble he knows what to expect and he’s ready for it.
Here’s the next best thing you can do to learn the same kind of lessons Rick Jones did.
Call your local police office (or a friend who’s in law enforcement) and ask if you can do a “ride-along” with them. Try to find someone who is a “beat cop” and who regularly runs into bad situations. It won’t do much good to ride with a detective or an officer doing traffic stops.
You can also spend some time in the local criminal court. Spending a few hours a day, or night, over several days will give you a great education when it comes to knowing who the bad guys are and understanding their behavior.
By watching these people you get a feel for what they’re like, the way they move, act and THE WAY THEY WATCH OTHER PEOPLE.
Most criminals are petty thieves and not very dangerous. What you’re looking for is a way of spotting those who are mean, sadistic or emotionally disturbed. They are the violent offenders who will rob you first and then shoot you just for the fun of it. They are the ones you want to spot early on. You want plenty of time to either avoid, evade or otherwise deal with these people.
After a little practice in criminal court, it’s time to go to your favorite mall or even a busy street corner. Find a spot from which you can watch people. Then repeat the exercise, only this time your picking out the bad guys from the general population. See how easy it gets to “BE ALERT” once you know what to look for.
I hope you enjoyed this sample lesson, and if you haven’t yet, I look forward to you signing up for the full 12 week online course at www.SurviveInPlace.com
Double Your Brain Power!
Double Your Brain Power! - By Lynnee Davidson
Have I got some info for you today! Hear we go!
Consolidation is the term Scientists use to describe the movement of information from your short term, to long term memory.
So, how does consolidation occur?
Two major brain chemicals involved are called Kinases and Phosphatases. These chemicals belong to a special group called Enzymes. The action of enzymes is to make chemicals react with other chemicals, producing new substances, but the enzymes themselves are unaffected by the reaction. So, Kinases and Phosphateses in your brain cause other brain chemicals to react, but are left untouched by the reactions which they make happen.
When Kinase enzymes in your brain are involved in chemical reactions, the consolidation process is boosted. But when Phosphatase enzymes in your brain become involved, consolidation is inhibited.
So, how does this relate to boosting your brain power?
If you try to learn new information in one mass study session, the Phosphatase enzymes dominate and inhibit consolidation - but if you spread your learning in big gaps, the Phosphatase Enzymes do not build up very much and the Kinase enzymes become dominant. So the consolidation process is much more efficient.
So, the secret is this........
If you want to memorize something, review it before falling asleep because most memory consolidation happens during sleep.
Current research supports the idea that new information learnt last thing at night before sleeping, is retained much better than new information learnt first thing in the morning. Learning new information on top of new information encourages the build up of Phosphatase enzyme activity and therefore hinders consolidation.
I've revealed to you some of the ways in which you can Double Your Brain
Power - and if you apply my techniques, you really can do it in 2 weeks or less!
Remember you can preview the first chapter with my compliments - and then download the rest of the book to continue reading.
www.DoubleYourBrainPower.com
And of course, I'll keep you up to date with the latest information on keeping your brain fit and healthy.
To your success!
Lynnee Davidson.
Have I got some info for you today! Hear we go!
Consolidation is the term Scientists use to describe the movement of information from your short term, to long term memory.
So, how does consolidation occur?
Two major brain chemicals involved are called Kinases and Phosphatases. These chemicals belong to a special group called Enzymes. The action of enzymes is to make chemicals react with other chemicals, producing new substances, but the enzymes themselves are unaffected by the reaction. So, Kinases and Phosphateses in your brain cause other brain chemicals to react, but are left untouched by the reactions which they make happen.
When Kinase enzymes in your brain are involved in chemical reactions, the consolidation process is boosted. But when Phosphatase enzymes in your brain become involved, consolidation is inhibited.
So, how does this relate to boosting your brain power?
If you try to learn new information in one mass study session, the Phosphatase enzymes dominate and inhibit consolidation - but if you spread your learning in big gaps, the Phosphatase Enzymes do not build up very much and the Kinase enzymes become dominant. So the consolidation process is much more efficient.
So, the secret is this........
If you want to memorize something, review it before falling asleep because most memory consolidation happens during sleep.
Current research supports the idea that new information learnt last thing at night before sleeping, is retained much better than new information learnt first thing in the morning. Learning new information on top of new information encourages the build up of Phosphatase enzyme activity and therefore hinders consolidation.
I've revealed to you some of the ways in which you can Double Your Brain
Power - and if you apply my techniques, you really can do it in 2 weeks or less!
Remember you can preview the first chapter with my compliments - and then download the rest of the book to continue reading.
www.DoubleYourBrainPower.com
And of course, I'll keep you up to date with the latest information on keeping your brain fit and healthy.
To your success!
Lynnee Davidson.
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I suggest you get on this road with me and cruise past the gurus!
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If you are sick of the fog of wrong blogging information, then Blogs Goldmine is the tool you need to dispel it.
Thanks for reading,
Buddy
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After all, there is a secret out there and I know you can benefit from it if you just knew it, that's for sure!
Blogs Goldmine has shown me the key to blogging success!
I suggest you get on this road with me and cruise past the gurus!
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If you are sick of the fog of wrong blogging information, then Blogs Goldmine is the tool you need to dispel it.
Thanks for reading,
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When I first looked on the cover of this eBook I said to myself oh no, not another make money with your blog eBook;
but to my complete surprise this eBook actually got my attention.
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Yeah you can tell I love blogging products! Like hell I do!
As I sat back and read Blogs Goldmine to my surprise I found myself drawn into the eBook soaking up all the information it was providing.
The information which I was reading was really opening my eyes to how a regular person can become highly successful with making money from his blog.
What I found out was quite amazing.
After reading on I found that the information provided is very helpful.
I also found it so easy to visualize applying it to my life. You will find in this eBook a great step by step guide which will expose to you how to make money from your blog easily.
It takes weeks for the regular blogging eBook to make you slightly successful with your blog, and here it is in black and white, a simple guide for creating a blogging master.
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I mentioned earlier in this email:
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Blogs Goldmine has officially earned itself a place on my printed book shelf with ages bookmarked and pages highlighted for my future interactions to come.
Excellent eBook!
Thank you for reading,
Buddy
When I first looked on the cover of this eBook I said to myself oh no, not another make money with your blog eBook;
but to my complete surprise this eBook actually got my attention.
When I hear the words blogging techniques, I automatically assume that I'm back in the beginning viewing a multitude of very poor blogging content eBooks sold to the masses and created by someone who has no professional blogging skills to speak of.
Yeah you can tell I love blogging products! Like hell I do!
As I sat back and read Blogs Goldmine to my surprise I found myself drawn into the eBook soaking up all the information it was providing.
The information which I was reading was really opening my eyes to how a regular person can become highly successful with making money from his blog.
What I found out was quite amazing.
After reading on I found that the information provided is very helpful.
I also found it so easy to visualize applying it to my life. You will find in this eBook a great step by step guide which will expose to you how to make money from your blog easily.
It takes weeks for the regular blogging eBook to make you slightly successful with your blog, and here it is in black and white, a simple guide for creating a blogging master.
Blogs Goldmine does not stop there either. Once you have created the right mindset for blogging success. Blogs Goldmine moves you on to the next level and shows you how to make the most out of your blog.
This eBook is one giant of an eBook packed to the brim of excellent no fluff content. 54 pages of pure information you will be returning back to again and again, I guarantee it.
This eBook really is a roadmap to success.
I mentioned earlier in this email:
Yeah you can tell I love blogging products! Like hell I do! I officially retract that statement after reading Blogs Goldmine.
With the right content and the right sources, you can be as successful as the top blogging gurus in the world, getting money from their blogs with break neck speed.
Blogs Goldmine has officially earned itself a place on my printed book shelf with ages bookmarked and pages highlighted for my future interactions to come.
Excellent eBook!
Thank you for reading,
Buddy
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
When Love Still Exists How to Win Ex Back
Do you want to win your ex back? If you had a close, loving relationship with a man who later dumped you, you may want to get back together. You have a lot of emotional investment in the relationship, and may not want to throw it away without an attempt to reignite the flame. Here’s how to win your ex back.
First of all, you need to analyze your own feelings. Do you still care deeply about your ex? Sometimes a great passion burns into being merely comfortable. You don’t want to lose your ex because he’s like an old slipper. But comfort doesn’t make a great relationship. There has to be a great love. If you still have passionate feelings for your old boyfriend, you can move onto the next step of how to win your ex back.
And that next step is examining how he feels about you. Does he have the same kind of grand love? If the problems in the relationship were things you can work on – communication, time management, goal awareness – then you can win your ex back. But, if the problem was deeper – he was no longer in love with you – you should start to move on now.
When you have determined that this was a grand love, you can start to work on the things that can bring you back together. For instance, think back to who you were when your boyfriend fell for you. Perhaps you weighed 10 pounds less, had a more optimistic outlook on life, were close to your girlfriends, or were involved in a variety of activities.
After you spend time with a guy, you begin to change. You spend less time with girlfriends or on your own activities as he begins to demand more of your presence. You may have let yourself go because you feel secure in his affection.
If you want to win your ex back, you need to go back to being the woman he fell in love with.
Another tip to how to win yourex back is to practice detachment. Don’t call, text, or stalk him. You don’t want to appear desperate. By seeming to accept the situation, you actually become more desirable to him.
In practicing detachment, you also begin to focus on what makes you happy. You get reconnected to friends and family. You take up hobbies and other things which interest you. You become a more positive person in general. This all helps to win your ex back.
When you do get together with your ex from time to time, use the past to your advantage. For instance, if there was an outfit he really liked to see you in, wear it. If you eat at a restaurant where you had a good time with him, mention that you were there again. Because you have many positive experiences with this guy, you can use your common history to win your ex back.
From time to time, invite your ex to non-committal type events. Ask him to join a group of your friends at a bar or invite him to a party. Let him know he’s free to bring a date.
Finally, if you want to win him back, just be yourself. Either he’s in love with you or he isn’t. You can’t change who you are to win him back. You can only be yourself.
For more great relationship tips visit this site:
www.MagicOfMakingUp.com
First of all, you need to analyze your own feelings. Do you still care deeply about your ex? Sometimes a great passion burns into being merely comfortable. You don’t want to lose your ex because he’s like an old slipper. But comfort doesn’t make a great relationship. There has to be a great love. If you still have passionate feelings for your old boyfriend, you can move onto the next step of how to win your ex back.
And that next step is examining how he feels about you. Does he have the same kind of grand love? If the problems in the relationship were things you can work on – communication, time management, goal awareness – then you can win your ex back. But, if the problem was deeper – he was no longer in love with you – you should start to move on now.
When you have determined that this was a grand love, you can start to work on the things that can bring you back together. For instance, think back to who you were when your boyfriend fell for you. Perhaps you weighed 10 pounds less, had a more optimistic outlook on life, were close to your girlfriends, or were involved in a variety of activities.
After you spend time with a guy, you begin to change. You spend less time with girlfriends or on your own activities as he begins to demand more of your presence. You may have let yourself go because you feel secure in his affection.
If you want to win your ex back, you need to go back to being the woman he fell in love with.
Another tip to how to win yourex back is to practice detachment. Don’t call, text, or stalk him. You don’t want to appear desperate. By seeming to accept the situation, you actually become more desirable to him.
In practicing detachment, you also begin to focus on what makes you happy. You get reconnected to friends and family. You take up hobbies and other things which interest you. You become a more positive person in general. This all helps to win your ex back.
When you do get together with your ex from time to time, use the past to your advantage. For instance, if there was an outfit he really liked to see you in, wear it. If you eat at a restaurant where you had a good time with him, mention that you were there again. Because you have many positive experiences with this guy, you can use your common history to win your ex back.
From time to time, invite your ex to non-committal type events. Ask him to join a group of your friends at a bar or invite him to a party. Let him know he’s free to bring a date.
Finally, if you want to win him back, just be yourself. Either he’s in love with you or he isn’t. You can’t change who you are to win him back. You can only be yourself.
For more great relationship tips visit this site:
www.MagicOfMakingUp.com
How To Catch a Cheating Spouse - Finding Long-Distance Proof
When your partner is in a different location to you, it is easy to let the element of doubt plague your mind. While you are busy working or keeping the home and caring for children, there is always the possibility that something is happening behind your back.
The temptation is strong because the geographical location enables many spouses to have indiscretions with little fear of being caught. This is especially true when the relationship is over a long distance, perhaps separate countries, as you don't have the comfort and reassurance of physical contact with your partner on a regular basis.
I guess this is why they call relationships blind faith. There are no guarantees what is happening, so you have to rely on your instincts and faith. But what happens when this is not enough? What happens when the faith you have in your marriage is not enough to overcome your lingering fears?
The first thing most people feel is fear and guilt. Fear of the unknown, fear of the humility and people knowing something that you don't. Fear of the possibility that your partner doesn't love you anymore and wants to be with someone else. And then there's guilt, at losing faith in your relationship and doubting your partner's integrity. What if you got it wrong? How do you know if it's true or not? Is he or she having a long distance affair?
Your courses of action when your partner is living in another city are limited, but there still are ways that you can determine whether your partner is cheating on you or not. If you have the opportunity to visit your partner you can place tracking software on their computer, place GPS or digital recording devices around the vehicle they are using to see if their stories correlate with the data you are finding, hiring a private investigator to track their movements for a set period of time, and many others.
If you have a partner who is home regularly between trips you have the added advantage of semen detection kits, cellphone tracking software to recover deleted text messages, as well as ways to talk with your partner and notice any body language anomalies that point towards lying.
It may seem that long-distance relationships leave you feeling alone and marooned, often in more than one way, but there are a number of gadgets and techniques you can employ and tailor to fit the specifics of your situation.
All that is required is an open mind and a willingness to try.
Do you have access to your partner's email account? Do you have access to your partner's cell phone bill?
What would you do if you were told there are ways to access them?
The answer may be closer than you think.
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The temptation is strong because the geographical location enables many spouses to have indiscretions with little fear of being caught. This is especially true when the relationship is over a long distance, perhaps separate countries, as you don't have the comfort and reassurance of physical contact with your partner on a regular basis.
I guess this is why they call relationships blind faith. There are no guarantees what is happening, so you have to rely on your instincts and faith. But what happens when this is not enough? What happens when the faith you have in your marriage is not enough to overcome your lingering fears?
The first thing most people feel is fear and guilt. Fear of the unknown, fear of the humility and people knowing something that you don't. Fear of the possibility that your partner doesn't love you anymore and wants to be with someone else. And then there's guilt, at losing faith in your relationship and doubting your partner's integrity. What if you got it wrong? How do you know if it's true or not? Is he or she having a long distance affair?
Your courses of action when your partner is living in another city are limited, but there still are ways that you can determine whether your partner is cheating on you or not. If you have the opportunity to visit your partner you can place tracking software on their computer, place GPS or digital recording devices around the vehicle they are using to see if their stories correlate with the data you are finding, hiring a private investigator to track their movements for a set period of time, and many others.
If you have a partner who is home regularly between trips you have the added advantage of semen detection kits, cellphone tracking software to recover deleted text messages, as well as ways to talk with your partner and notice any body language anomalies that point towards lying.
It may seem that long-distance relationships leave you feeling alone and marooned, often in more than one way, but there are a number of gadgets and techniques you can employ and tailor to fit the specifics of your situation.
All that is required is an open mind and a willingness to try.
Do you have access to your partner's email account? Do you have access to your partner's cell phone bill?
What would you do if you were told there are ways to access them?
The answer may be closer than you think.
*******************************************************************
How To Catch a Cheating Spouse product is a compilation of quality ebooks covering tips and methods to uncover your cheating spouse to marital advice for couples in crisis. Also included is bonus tracking software Sherlock Pro, which tracks screencaps, websites visited, and keylogs. This ebook and software package is a comprehensive tool for partners that want proof of infidelity or peace of mind. You can learn more about how to catch your cheating spouse at:
http://www.CatchSpouseCheating.com
Free and accessible sources in your research for your genealogy
Isn't it interesting to know more about your ancestral timeline several generations ago? If you are on the search for reliable sources that will serve as your reference documents, the internet is a good resource material. It has always contained the vast data that can help in your research. The great advantage when using the internet is that the genealogist can save both money and effort.
Aside from the ancestral timeline, some people also would want to know the details about their recent generations. In the quest of finding this out, genealogy becomes a serious study that takes an investment.
There are some helpful pointers that can give ease to your research. Whether you are new or a professional genealogist, you must know that there could be other researchers that work on your genealogy. One way to find out is to check on the published works of the surnames involved in your family tree. Some of these researchers publish their works on their website for other people to visit. Other helpful tools that can also be found in the internet are the searchable indexes that contain references needed in your study.
The genealogical or historical society is an institution that you can ask help from. They are found in the towns where your ancestors once lived. This is an excellent source of information on how life was during the time of your great, great grandparents. The genealogical or historical society keeps the records of local directories, the list of buried people even in inactive burial spots, and newspaper archives. The advantage of seeking help from this institution is that this is run by volunteers who have been oriented with some genealogical facts. This also contains addresses of other societies which have links to their webs.
Way back in 1800's, the US and Europe has the long tradition of funeral cards or mourning cards. These are also great sources for genealogists. There are also web sites that deal on the indexing of these cards. You can visit these sites and search for the surnames that you need.
Newspapers are also good sources of local information. They usually contain valuable information about people who have lived a few years ago. The online newspaper archive is a searchable site that takes the place of microfilm reels. However, it would be advantageous if you have some information about your ancestors such as the event where they have been involved. When you search in online newspaper archives, you type the surname and the keyword, which is resembled by the event. The newspaper online is updated regularly that makes their information reliable.
Another research tool that is helpful in genealogy is the indexed census. Aside from this, there are other transcribed records which are also available online. Such records of birth, marriage and death information are available in some databases.
There are various research tools that help in the search of your ancestry. There are free and accessible sources that only proper organization provide.
www.VoodooGenealogy.com
Aside from the ancestral timeline, some people also would want to know the details about their recent generations. In the quest of finding this out, genealogy becomes a serious study that takes an investment.
There are some helpful pointers that can give ease to your research. Whether you are new or a professional genealogist, you must know that there could be other researchers that work on your genealogy. One way to find out is to check on the published works of the surnames involved in your family tree. Some of these researchers publish their works on their website for other people to visit. Other helpful tools that can also be found in the internet are the searchable indexes that contain references needed in your study.
The genealogical or historical society is an institution that you can ask help from. They are found in the towns where your ancestors once lived. This is an excellent source of information on how life was during the time of your great, great grandparents. The genealogical or historical society keeps the records of local directories, the list of buried people even in inactive burial spots, and newspaper archives. The advantage of seeking help from this institution is that this is run by volunteers who have been oriented with some genealogical facts. This also contains addresses of other societies which have links to their webs.
Way back in 1800's, the US and Europe has the long tradition of funeral cards or mourning cards. These are also great sources for genealogists. There are also web sites that deal on the indexing of these cards. You can visit these sites and search for the surnames that you need.
Newspapers are also good sources of local information. They usually contain valuable information about people who have lived a few years ago. The online newspaper archive is a searchable site that takes the place of microfilm reels. However, it would be advantageous if you have some information about your ancestors such as the event where they have been involved. When you search in online newspaper archives, you type the surname and the keyword, which is resembled by the event. The newspaper online is updated regularly that makes their information reliable.
Another research tool that is helpful in genealogy is the indexed census. Aside from this, there are other transcribed records which are also available online. Such records of birth, marriage and death information are available in some databases.
There are various research tools that help in the search of your ancestry. There are free and accessible sources that only proper organization provide.
www.VoodooGenealogy.com
What genealogy is - and isn't!
Welcome to the 10-part ecourse, 10 Tips to Unearthing Your Family History, which provides you with tips on the fascinating topic of genealogy. Each part of this series will teach you about a different aspect of genealogy, a hobby shared by millions nationwide.
So just what is genealogy?
You may think you know what genealogy is, but many individuals confuse it with the closely related term "family history." Genealogy is the study of ancestry and descendents. Period.
Indeed, the study of genealogy pertains only to discovering who is a member of a specific family and how these family members are related to others.
It is, however, closely related to the study of family history.
Family history is the actual narrative of your ancestors' lives. This area of study also includes learning about the context in which your ancestors lived. In essence, it encompasses just about everything about your heritage: tracking the dates of your ancestors' births and deaths, the jobs they held, as well as, any other important factors in their lives.
As you make your family's genealogy chart, it'll be difficult to separate the two. After all, in order to learn who came from where and when, you'll have to learn a little more about their history, as well.
For our purposes, however, the entire effort of who, what, when, where and how of your family tree will conveniently be labelled genealogy. Keep in mind, however, that an occasional relative who likes to take things literally, may correct you when you talk about genealogy in such broad terms.
In Tip #2, we'll take a look at why the study of genealogy is important. In the meantime, I'd like to leave you with - as I will with throughout these lessons - some presidential genealogy. It's like a "Who's Related to Whom?" of the presidential caliber.
Only six U.S. presidents have been directly related. John Adams and John Quincy Adams were father and son, as were George H.W. Bush and George Bush. But in addition to that, William Harrison and Benjamin Harrison were grandfather and grandson! But as we go along, just wait to see the extended families of some of these men!
VoodooGenealogy.com
So just what is genealogy?
You may think you know what genealogy is, but many individuals confuse it with the closely related term "family history." Genealogy is the study of ancestry and descendents. Period.
Indeed, the study of genealogy pertains only to discovering who is a member of a specific family and how these family members are related to others.
It is, however, closely related to the study of family history.
Family history is the actual narrative of your ancestors' lives. This area of study also includes learning about the context in which your ancestors lived. In essence, it encompasses just about everything about your heritage: tracking the dates of your ancestors' births and deaths, the jobs they held, as well as, any other important factors in their lives.
As you make your family's genealogy chart, it'll be difficult to separate the two. After all, in order to learn who came from where and when, you'll have to learn a little more about their history, as well.
For our purposes, however, the entire effort of who, what, when, where and how of your family tree will conveniently be labelled genealogy. Keep in mind, however, that an occasional relative who likes to take things literally, may correct you when you talk about genealogy in such broad terms.
In Tip #2, we'll take a look at why the study of genealogy is important. In the meantime, I'd like to leave you with - as I will with throughout these lessons - some presidential genealogy. It's like a "Who's Related to Whom?" of the presidential caliber.
Only six U.S. presidents have been directly related. John Adams and John Quincy Adams were father and son, as were George H.W. Bush and George Bush. But in addition to that, William Harrison and Benjamin Harrison were grandfather and grandson! But as we go along, just wait to see the extended families of some of these men!
VoodooGenealogy.com
Actual Identity Theft Victim Cases.
A gentleman in San Diego, California (we'll call him John Jones), encountered an identity thief who opened a PayPal account under John's name and filtered $7,600 from John's Bank of America account into the forged PayPal account. The incident occurred during July and August of 2002 but because John had been travelling he did not notice the money was actually missing until January of 2003. He contacted his bank and was informed that because he had failed to notify the bank within 60 days of the occurrence there was nothing they could do for him.
By that time all of the money, with the exception of $2,100 still remaining in the PayPal account had been spent. PayPal returned the remaining sum to John but he was still out $5,000. John sued both PayPal and Bank of America in small claims court, pleading that PayPal should have notified him immediately upon discovering the fraud. Bank of America counter argued that it is the customer's responsibility to regularly check bank statements and ensure their accuracy.
In the end John walked away with a settlement from each of the firms, however was still out approximately $500 as a result. His yearlong battle to turn things right was extensive, time consuming and frustrating.
An elderly woman in Seattle, Washington (we'll call her Jane Doe), was the victim of a telemarketing scam in December of last year. Jane provided her checking account information to the caller and later found that her account had been cleaned of $800, leaving her overdrawn by $300.
When her December Social Security check was deposited the Bank of America withdrew $300 of it to cover the overdraft. Jane was left with barely enough money for food and rent and was forced to "skip" Christmas that year. By February the Bank of America had returned some of the money to her and was continuing to work with her to repair the situation.
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By that time all of the money, with the exception of $2,100 still remaining in the PayPal account had been spent. PayPal returned the remaining sum to John but he was still out $5,000. John sued both PayPal and Bank of America in small claims court, pleading that PayPal should have notified him immediately upon discovering the fraud. Bank of America counter argued that it is the customer's responsibility to regularly check bank statements and ensure their accuracy.
In the end John walked away with a settlement from each of the firms, however was still out approximately $500 as a result. His yearlong battle to turn things right was extensive, time consuming and frustrating.
An elderly woman in Seattle, Washington (we'll call her Jane Doe), was the victim of a telemarketing scam in December of last year. Jane provided her checking account information to the caller and later found that her account had been cleaned of $800, leaving her overdrawn by $300.
When her December Social Security check was deposited the Bank of America withdrew $300 of it to cover the overdraft. Jane was left with barely enough money for food and rent and was forced to "skip" Christmas that year. By February the Bank of America had returned some of the money to her and was continuing to work with her to repair the situation.
For More Info Visit: http://identity-theft-pro.com
Tonsil Stone - Discover the Hidden Truth About Tonsil Stones
The bottom line is that there are three building blocks that go into the creation of the tonsil stone. Not all three have to be present in order for the stones to develop. It is not unusual for any combination of two of these elements to lead to the creation of the stones, and very common for all three elements to be present. Three is anecdotal evidence of the creation of a tonsil stone from a single element, but currently not any instances that are generally accepted by the medical community.
One of the more common elements that can go into the tonsil stone are white blood cells that are not longer alive and functioning. The natural elements that compose the white blood cells provide the basic matter that can begin to build up calcified deposits that form the basis for the tonsil stone. There are several different ideas about how the while blood cells come to collect in the area near the back portion of the mouth, and probably there is some degree of fact behind most of these theories. What is important to remember is that the presence of the raw material of these dead white blood cells can help to establish the ideal environment for the development of tonsilloliths.
A second common element that aids in the formation of the tonsil stone is oral bacteria. There is no real mystery about how bacteria can collect in the rear of the mouth and at the entryway to the throat. The simple fact is that all sorts of materials pass near and through this area. Not only is there exposure to bacteria due to food and drink, but also airborne elements that enter the area as we breathe in through our noses or mouths. Under the right conditions, oral bacteria can easily set up shop and aid the dead white blood cells in creating the tonsil stone.
Last, the tonsil stone may be helped along with an unusual degree of activity of the salivary glands. When these glands are overactive, the end result can be a proliferation of additional enzymes. These enzymes, when produced in a moderate amount, are essential for beginning the digestion process as food moves from the mouth, down the throat, and into the digestive system.
However, when too many enzymes are present, the food begins to break down too early in the process. The end result is food begins to dissolve while still in the rear of the mouth, and calcified remains tend to begin to collect in the crevasses of the tonsils. As can be imagined, any type of foreign matter present in the area can and often will lead to some sort of problems down the road.
Some people wonder just what it is in the foods that lead to these deposits of calcified matter. The answer is very simple. Carbohydrates and starches are left behind when the salivary glands are hyperactive. These two elements quickly settle into relatively hard clumps that can then be the nucleus for a tonsil stone. Persons who are lactose intolerant may find that there is a predisposition toward the development of the tonsil stone, as the elements in milk may coat the tonsils and set up a reaction that can lead to the formation of the tonsil stone.
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One of the more common elements that can go into the tonsil stone are white blood cells that are not longer alive and functioning. The natural elements that compose the white blood cells provide the basic matter that can begin to build up calcified deposits that form the basis for the tonsil stone. There are several different ideas about how the while blood cells come to collect in the area near the back portion of the mouth, and probably there is some degree of fact behind most of these theories. What is important to remember is that the presence of the raw material of these dead white blood cells can help to establish the ideal environment for the development of tonsilloliths.
A second common element that aids in the formation of the tonsil stone is oral bacteria. There is no real mystery about how bacteria can collect in the rear of the mouth and at the entryway to the throat. The simple fact is that all sorts of materials pass near and through this area. Not only is there exposure to bacteria due to food and drink, but also airborne elements that enter the area as we breathe in through our noses or mouths. Under the right conditions, oral bacteria can easily set up shop and aid the dead white blood cells in creating the tonsil stone.
Last, the tonsil stone may be helped along with an unusual degree of activity of the salivary glands. When these glands are overactive, the end result can be a proliferation of additional enzymes. These enzymes, when produced in a moderate amount, are essential for beginning the digestion process as food moves from the mouth, down the throat, and into the digestive system.
However, when too many enzymes are present, the food begins to break down too early in the process. The end result is food begins to dissolve while still in the rear of the mouth, and calcified remains tend to begin to collect in the crevasses of the tonsils. As can be imagined, any type of foreign matter present in the area can and often will lead to some sort of problems down the road.
Some people wonder just what it is in the foods that lead to these deposits of calcified matter. The answer is very simple. Carbohydrates and starches are left behind when the salivary glands are hyperactive. These two elements quickly settle into relatively hard clumps that can then be the nucleus for a tonsil stone. Persons who are lactose intolerant may find that there is a predisposition toward the development of the tonsil stone, as the elements in milk may coat the tonsils and set up a reaction that can lead to the formation of the tonsil stone.
For more information on how to Naturally Prevent and Get rid of Tonsil Stones, please visit this website at: http://www.tonsilstonesremedies.com
Tonsil Stones and Tonsilloliths - How to Prevent and Get Rid of Tonsil Stones?
If you are like the vast majority of the general public, you probably have never heard of tonsil stones. While not well known, this condition is probably more common than most of us will ever realize. Because tonsil stones can sometimes present nothing more than minor symptoms that create little to no inconvenience for the patient, many people can live with the condition of years before the disease is diagnosed. Even when the symptoms are moderate to severe, there is still the chance that the initial diagnosis will be for some other condition.
More properly referred to as tonsilloliths, tonsil stones can make a significant impact on the quality of life. Fortunately, there is a great deal that can be done to manage and eventually overcome this condition. Due to the wonders of modern medicine, the chances for obtaining an accurate diagnosis are much higher than even a decade ago. At the same time, treatments for tonsil stones have become easier to administer and often will produce results in a shorter period of time.
Tonsil stones or tonsilloliths are collections of various matter than bond together and collect at the point where the rear of the mouth and the crevasse that houses the tonsils is located. Essentially, there are several different types of matter that can go into the creation of tonsil stones. The exact composition of the stones will vary somewhat from one person to another, although all stones will contain at least two different types of matter.
In appearance, the tonsil stones can often resemble minute amounts of food that appear to have lodged in the area. Generally, the stones will be off white to yellow in color, and will almost appear to be something that could be scraped away with a little effort. However, as the matter matures, it becomes increasingly calcified and adheres to the tissue with greater resistance.
In the earliest stages, tonsil stones can appear to simply be bacteria that is present due to a cold or some type of throat infection. Often, antibiotics may be administered due to this assumption. While this may help to some degree, especially in alleviating any minor outward systems, the problem is that the pockets of the calcified stones tend to reappear once the treatments cease.
At Tonsil Stones Remedies, we will look at the basics of tonsilloliths. Along with defining what a tonsil stone actually, we will also look into such aspects as what symptoms are often manifest with the disease, how the condition can develop, and what to do once it has been determined that tonsil stones are present. The important thing to keep in mind is that while tonsil stones can cause a great deal of pain and discomfort in severe cases, the condition is highly treatable once diagnosed.
For more information on how to Naturally Prevent and Get rid of Tonsil Stones, please visit this website at: http://www.tonsilstonesremedies.com
More properly referred to as tonsilloliths, tonsil stones can make a significant impact on the quality of life. Fortunately, there is a great deal that can be done to manage and eventually overcome this condition. Due to the wonders of modern medicine, the chances for obtaining an accurate diagnosis are much higher than even a decade ago. At the same time, treatments for tonsil stones have become easier to administer and often will produce results in a shorter period of time.
Tonsil stones or tonsilloliths are collections of various matter than bond together and collect at the point where the rear of the mouth and the crevasse that houses the tonsils is located. Essentially, there are several different types of matter that can go into the creation of tonsil stones. The exact composition of the stones will vary somewhat from one person to another, although all stones will contain at least two different types of matter.
In appearance, the tonsil stones can often resemble minute amounts of food that appear to have lodged in the area. Generally, the stones will be off white to yellow in color, and will almost appear to be something that could be scraped away with a little effort. However, as the matter matures, it becomes increasingly calcified and adheres to the tissue with greater resistance.
In the earliest stages, tonsil stones can appear to simply be bacteria that is present due to a cold or some type of throat infection. Often, antibiotics may be administered due to this assumption. While this may help to some degree, especially in alleviating any minor outward systems, the problem is that the pockets of the calcified stones tend to reappear once the treatments cease.
At Tonsil Stones Remedies, we will look at the basics of tonsilloliths. Along with defining what a tonsil stone actually, we will also look into such aspects as what symptoms are often manifest with the disease, how the condition can develop, and what to do once it has been determined that tonsil stones are present. The important thing to keep in mind is that while tonsil stones can cause a great deal of pain and discomfort in severe cases, the condition is highly treatable once diagnosed.
For more information on how to Naturally Prevent and Get rid of Tonsil Stones, please visit this website at: http://www.tonsilstonesremedies.com
Tonsilloliths - What Are the Symptoms of Tonsilloliths?
It is possible to have tonsilloliths for an extended period of time, simply because the condition may be present without exhibiting much in the way of outward symptoms. However, if not addressed, they eventually will begin to make their presence known, and not in a manner that is pleasant. Here are a few examples of the more common symptoms of tonsilloliths that may be present.
Bad breath is one of the indicators that tonsilloliths may be present. This is usually identified as a symptom when the individual does brush after meals, and even uses mouthwash to freshen the breath. Yet, an hour or so later, the foul smell is back and the mouth has a taste as if brushing and using mouthwash never took place. Since this tends to start out as a minor inconvenience, most of us tend to pop a breath mint and get on with life. But as the tonsilloliths continue to develop, the foul odor continues to strengthen and eventually we realize that something is going on outside the norm.
The development of a cough for no apparent reason may also be a sign that tonsilloliths are either on the way or are already present. Just like bad breath, most of us shrug off a cough as being something incidental. After all, a cough can be the result of getting a little dust into the back of the throat or some other minor irritation. However, as the tonsilloliths set up housekeeping in the back of our mouths, the coughing will become more persistent and sometimes get to the point of being hard to control.
Sore throats are often a factor in the presence of tonsilloliths. At first, we may feel as if the tonsils are a little raw, no unlike the sensation many of us get when we attempt to drink something that is a little hot, or when we consume food with a lot of hot spices. However, the sensation usually graduates to feeling as if we are experiencing a sore throat that is similar to the way we feel when we have a cold. When this happens, we may choose to suck on a piece of peppermint or take a throat lozenge. While that may provide some temporary relief from the symptom, it does nothing to slow down the development of the tonsilloliths.
Without treatment, all these symptoms will continue to increase in severity. Along with experiencing a cough, a sore throat, and dealing with bad breath, there is one other very common symptom that may be present. This is a sense of there being something extra around the back of the mouth. This is because the presence of the tonsilloliths are adding to the mass of the tonsils. This extra mass may lessen the efficiency of swallowing, which can also be inconvenient.
For more information on how to Naturally Prevent and Get rid of Tonsilloliths, please visit this website at:
http://www.tonsilstonesremedies.com
Bad breath is one of the indicators that tonsilloliths may be present. This is usually identified as a symptom when the individual does brush after meals, and even uses mouthwash to freshen the breath. Yet, an hour or so later, the foul smell is back and the mouth has a taste as if brushing and using mouthwash never took place. Since this tends to start out as a minor inconvenience, most of us tend to pop a breath mint and get on with life. But as the tonsilloliths continue to develop, the foul odor continues to strengthen and eventually we realize that something is going on outside the norm.
The development of a cough for no apparent reason may also be a sign that tonsilloliths are either on the way or are already present. Just like bad breath, most of us shrug off a cough as being something incidental. After all, a cough can be the result of getting a little dust into the back of the throat or some other minor irritation. However, as the tonsilloliths set up housekeeping in the back of our mouths, the coughing will become more persistent and sometimes get to the point of being hard to control.
Sore throats are often a factor in the presence of tonsilloliths. At first, we may feel as if the tonsils are a little raw, no unlike the sensation many of us get when we attempt to drink something that is a little hot, or when we consume food with a lot of hot spices. However, the sensation usually graduates to feeling as if we are experiencing a sore throat that is similar to the way we feel when we have a cold. When this happens, we may choose to suck on a piece of peppermint or take a throat lozenge. While that may provide some temporary relief from the symptom, it does nothing to slow down the development of the tonsilloliths.
Without treatment, all these symptoms will continue to increase in severity. Along with experiencing a cough, a sore throat, and dealing with bad breath, there is one other very common symptom that may be present. This is a sense of there being something extra around the back of the mouth. This is because the presence of the tonsilloliths are adding to the mass of the tonsils. This extra mass may lessen the efficiency of swallowing, which can also be inconvenient.
For more information on how to Naturally Prevent and Get rid of Tonsilloliths, please visit this website at:
http://www.tonsilstonesremedies.com
Can I Catch Tonsils Stones From Someone Else?
While there is always the possibility of passing germs and bacteria to another person, it is not possible to catch tonsils stones directly from someone else. There are several reasons for this, many of which have to do with our own individual states of health. Here are some examples.
First, there is not much chance of direct contact with the tonsils stones. Essentially, in order to achieve direct contact, it would be necessary to use the fingers or a swab to come in contact with the stones, then use those same fingers or swabs to attempt to deposit the bacteria onto your tonsils. The gag reflex would prevent most of us from even attempting such a thing, so the chances of contamination from this sort of activity can be ruled out by most of us.
However, people do tend to wonder if the disease can be transferred through other means, such as a nice long romantic kiss with someone who currently has the stones. There is some credence to this concern. After all, long and intense open-mouthed kisses do allow for the exchange of saliva and bacteria between the two mouths concerned.
While the chances of dislodging a tonsil stone, transferring it to the other mouth, and working it into position on a tonsil are highly unlikely, it is feasible that bacteria may transfer and set up with a willing host.
As for developing tonsils stones as a result of airborne elements expelled by another person, the risk is no greater of being contaminated than with any other type of virus. Using simple precautions such as refraining from kissing, washing the hands and face immediately if someone sneezes or coughs on your, and in general keeping yourself clean will do the trick.
At the same time, do not use spoons, forks, or other eating utensils after someone with tonsils stones has just used them. Make sure they are thoroughly cleaned before they are used again.
To learn how to remove and prevent tonsils stones from returning, please visit this website: http://www.tonsilstonesremedies.com
First, there is not much chance of direct contact with the tonsils stones. Essentially, in order to achieve direct contact, it would be necessary to use the fingers or a swab to come in contact with the stones, then use those same fingers or swabs to attempt to deposit the bacteria onto your tonsils. The gag reflex would prevent most of us from even attempting such a thing, so the chances of contamination from this sort of activity can be ruled out by most of us.
However, people do tend to wonder if the disease can be transferred through other means, such as a nice long romantic kiss with someone who currently has the stones. There is some credence to this concern. After all, long and intense open-mouthed kisses do allow for the exchange of saliva and bacteria between the two mouths concerned.
While the chances of dislodging a tonsil stone, transferring it to the other mouth, and working it into position on a tonsil are highly unlikely, it is feasible that bacteria may transfer and set up with a willing host.
As for developing tonsils stones as a result of airborne elements expelled by another person, the risk is no greater of being contaminated than with any other type of virus. Using simple precautions such as refraining from kissing, washing the hands and face immediately if someone sneezes or coughs on your, and in general keeping yourself clean will do the trick.
At the same time, do not use spoons, forks, or other eating utensils after someone with tonsils stones has just used them. Make sure they are thoroughly cleaned before they are used again.
To learn how to remove and prevent tonsils stones from returning, please visit this website: http://www.tonsilstonesremedies.com
Tonsilloliths - Why Do I Get Tonsil Stones?
That is one of the mysteries of our human condition. The simple fact is that there is no way of predicting who will and who will not develop tonsil stones with a hundred percent accuracy. There are people who never take care of their bodies and who have awful dental hygiene that never end up with the stones. At the same time, there are people who brush, floss, and use mouth wash religiously, and also live very healthy lifestyles and still develop tonsilloliths.
Some theories focus on genetics as predisposing people to the development of tonsil stones, much in the same manner that genetics can be a factor in the development of many different types of health issues. Other theories scoff at genetics having anything to do with tonsilloliths, and claim that it is clearly a matter of maintaining good health and solid dental hygiene habits. Each side of the question can easily cite examples that refute the claims of the other.
Where does that leave you? Essentially with no solid answer as to why you should develop tonsil stones and the next person should not. When it is all said and done, there are probably many factors involved that we are just beginning to understand.
However, one thing is very clear. While it is impossible to explain why some people get tonsilloliths and others don't, no matter how they live, it is possible to take basic precautions and thus minimize the chances of coming down with tonsil stones. That is probably where our main focus should be, and allow modern medicine to continue looking into the "why" of who does and does not get the stones.
In short, the only way to permanently get rid of tonsil stones is through using natural remedies. Surgery to remove tonsil stones is not necessary, easy and simple remedies is the best treatment.
For more information on How to Treat and Remove Tonsil Stones, please visit this website at: http://www.tonsilstonesremedies.com
Some theories focus on genetics as predisposing people to the development of tonsil stones, much in the same manner that genetics can be a factor in the development of many different types of health issues. Other theories scoff at genetics having anything to do with tonsilloliths, and claim that it is clearly a matter of maintaining good health and solid dental hygiene habits. Each side of the question can easily cite examples that refute the claims of the other.
Where does that leave you? Essentially with no solid answer as to why you should develop tonsil stones and the next person should not. When it is all said and done, there are probably many factors involved that we are just beginning to understand.
However, one thing is very clear. While it is impossible to explain why some people get tonsilloliths and others don't, no matter how they live, it is possible to take basic precautions and thus minimize the chances of coming down with tonsil stones. That is probably where our main focus should be, and allow modern medicine to continue looking into the "why" of who does and does not get the stones.
In short, the only way to permanently get rid of tonsil stones is through using natural remedies. Surgery to remove tonsil stones is not necessary, easy and simple remedies is the best treatment.
For more information on How to Treat and Remove Tonsil Stones, please visit this website at: http://www.tonsilstonesremedies.com
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
Want Ex Back – Changing What Went Bad to Get My Ex Back
You are home after a date with yet another guy. It didn’t go well. You find yourself saying "I want my ex back".
After a break up, you may move on to other people. But, when you constantly find yourself thinking you want your ex back, are there things you can do to rekindle an old relationship?
There are, and in this article, I present you with five strategies for when you want your ex back.
First, clear your energy from other people. Don’t invest time and energy in men who aren’t your ex. For your old relationship to start working again, you have to prepare your mind, body and soul for him. If you are flirting with another guy, dating other men, or even worse, sleeping around, you are not preparing the proper mindset for getting your ex back.
Next, keep your dignity. Don’t chase your ex, flooding him with hundreds of text messages, calling him at odd times of day, or stalking him. Also, you need to make him respect you and treat you well. Don’t be a doormat. You will only command your ex’s respect and love when you are yourself at your best. Hold your head high. You will increase your chances of getting back together with your ex if you do.
Third, make a list of the things you appreciate about your ex and spend some time dwelling on them. Sometimes, a bad break up ends with all kinds of accusations. Now that you have some breathing room, start to concentrate on his good points. This is a good thing to do when you want your ex back.
Next, when you get back together, try changing some of the circumstances. Go to new places and try new things. Take up a new hobby together. Meet new people. By changing the environment of your relationship, you have a better chance of making it work. Don’t fall into the same old patterns of your relationship. You may even want to tune your relationship down a notch. If you were living together, try having separate places for a while. If you were engaged, try just dating. Don’t try to force your relationship back into old patterns.
Finally, create a shared sense of destiny. While fate certainly plays a role in our lives, we are the ones who write our life script. Map out with your partner where you want to go. When you do this together, you create a mission with a place for both of you.
When you want your ex back, you have to work with new scenarios. Follow the advice in this article if you want your ex back.
For more great relationship tips visit this site:
www.MagicOfMakingUp.com
After a break up, you may move on to other people. But, when you constantly find yourself thinking you want your ex back, are there things you can do to rekindle an old relationship?
There are, and in this article, I present you with five strategies for when you want your ex back.
First, clear your energy from other people. Don’t invest time and energy in men who aren’t your ex. For your old relationship to start working again, you have to prepare your mind, body and soul for him. If you are flirting with another guy, dating other men, or even worse, sleeping around, you are not preparing the proper mindset for getting your ex back.
Next, keep your dignity. Don’t chase your ex, flooding him with hundreds of text messages, calling him at odd times of day, or stalking him. Also, you need to make him respect you and treat you well. Don’t be a doormat. You will only command your ex’s respect and love when you are yourself at your best. Hold your head high. You will increase your chances of getting back together with your ex if you do.
Third, make a list of the things you appreciate about your ex and spend some time dwelling on them. Sometimes, a bad break up ends with all kinds of accusations. Now that you have some breathing room, start to concentrate on his good points. This is a good thing to do when you want your ex back.
Next, when you get back together, try changing some of the circumstances. Go to new places and try new things. Take up a new hobby together. Meet new people. By changing the environment of your relationship, you have a better chance of making it work. Don’t fall into the same old patterns of your relationship. You may even want to tune your relationship down a notch. If you were living together, try having separate places for a while. If you were engaged, try just dating. Don’t try to force your relationship back into old patterns.
Finally, create a shared sense of destiny. While fate certainly plays a role in our lives, we are the ones who write our life script. Map out with your partner where you want to go. When you do this together, you create a mission with a place for both of you.
When you want your ex back, you have to work with new scenarios. Follow the advice in this article if you want your ex back.
For more great relationship tips visit this site:
www.MagicOfMakingUp.com
Sunday, May 24, 2009
What To Do When Id Theft Occurs
All right, so it happened. Even with all of the precautions and care you've taken to protect yourself from those spineless and despicable thieves, somehow and someway they found a way to the inside...to the inside your personal and financial life that is. Now don't be too hard on yourself.
I know that you're saying to yourself right now, "I did everything I could possibly do. I took the time to make myself aware and educate myself on the facts and this still happened...why?" Well, unfortunately sometimes there is no real answer to the question why, it just is what it is. You have to keep in mind that these perpetrators are professionals and they will stop at nothing to achieve their goal.
Just like you go to work everyday and perform your job with the proficiency and skills that you have acquired, so do they. Their job everyday is to rip off honest, hardworking and innocent people such as you and I. It's not fair and it never will be. They have made a huge mess of your life and you are the one who is stuck with the task of picking up the pieces and turning things right again.
Sometimes you can build that fence higher, make the bridge more difficult to cross and even fill the moat with alligators, but inevitably there will always remain a weak and penetrable spot. Identity thieves are adept at looking for and seeking out those particular spots.
The most important thing for you to keep in mind right now is that regardless of how much damage was done and how bad the situation looks at present, it could always be worse. Think about what would have happened had you not already been so familiar with how identity theft works. You may not have been able to prevent it but you certainly knew how to recognize the fact that it was happening to you.
The signs were there and you didn't just dismiss them, as many others would have this early in the process. Maybe you noticed that your credit card statements had not arrived at the time of month that they generally should have. Perhaps during regular review of your bank statements you noticed some unusual transactions that you had not made.
Next time we'll be discussing a little about "Your Liability As A Victim Of Identity Theft.".
For more information about this part of What To Do When Id Theft Occurs, please refer to this definitive guide to preventing Identity Theft at http://Identity-Theft-Pro.com
I know that you're saying to yourself right now, "I did everything I could possibly do. I took the time to make myself aware and educate myself on the facts and this still happened...why?" Well, unfortunately sometimes there is no real answer to the question why, it just is what it is. You have to keep in mind that these perpetrators are professionals and they will stop at nothing to achieve their goal.
Just like you go to work everyday and perform your job with the proficiency and skills that you have acquired, so do they. Their job everyday is to rip off honest, hardworking and innocent people such as you and I. It's not fair and it never will be. They have made a huge mess of your life and you are the one who is stuck with the task of picking up the pieces and turning things right again.
Sometimes you can build that fence higher, make the bridge more difficult to cross and even fill the moat with alligators, but inevitably there will always remain a weak and penetrable spot. Identity thieves are adept at looking for and seeking out those particular spots.
The most important thing for you to keep in mind right now is that regardless of how much damage was done and how bad the situation looks at present, it could always be worse. Think about what would have happened had you not already been so familiar with how identity theft works. You may not have been able to prevent it but you certainly knew how to recognize the fact that it was happening to you.
The signs were there and you didn't just dismiss them, as many others would have this early in the process. Maybe you noticed that your credit card statements had not arrived at the time of month that they generally should have. Perhaps during regular review of your bank statements you noticed some unusual transactions that you had not made.
Next time we'll be discussing a little about "Your Liability As A Victim Of Identity Theft.".
For more information about this part of What To Do When Id Theft Occurs, please refer to this definitive guide to preventing Identity Theft at http://Identity-Theft-Pro.com
Make A Movie With No Money - Part 2
Brought to Us By Jason at www.NoBudgetFilmmaking.com
A lot of people ask me about what kind of film they should make. While there are many different kinds of films, and it would take me forever to go through the pros and cons of all of them...there are 2 major types that I want to discuss. Short films and Feature Length films.
Most filmmakers think they HAVE to start out making short films. Others want to start with a short to test their abilities on a smaller scale. But, making a short may not be all it's made out to be.
A lot of film students think that the road to making a feature is paved by short films. They think that if they make a short film, it will get them noticed, and lead to someone offering them a job directing a feature...or it will lead to someone giving them money to make their own feature. I have to say that from what I have seen, this is a rare occurrence.
The reality is that it is very hard to get noticed from a short film. There are thousands of film students spending thousands of dollars making shorts, but are they really getting anything out of it?
Sure, if you make an amazing short, and win a ton of awards, it will make thing easier on you when it comes time to try and raise money...but is it really worth spending all that time and money on a short for that slim chance?
Personally, I think too many people waste time making short films. They do it either because they think they have to...or because they are scared to take the risk of making a feature length movie. The truth is, if you can make a short...you can make a feature. Why not skip the short and go straight for the feature?
The benefits of making a feature way outweigh the benefits of making a short.
For one, there is almost NEVER any money to be made out of a short film. So, if you are going to spend the money, why not put it towards a feature that will be profitable...giving you money to make another film?
You do not HAVE to make a short in order to make a feature!
If you think making a short will get you noticed and suddenly people will be begging you to make a feature for them...good luck. That is a tough road to take.
If you think it is easier to make a short...you may be right. But it isn't that much harder to make a feature. So why not go for it? Besides, if you think people will be impressed with your short and offer you a feature...just think of how impressed they will be that you actually made your own feature?
Who do you think someone would rather give money to? Someone who made an artsy short film...or someone who has successfully completed a feature length movie on a budget?
I don't know about you, but if I was a money guy, I would go for the person who has proven his/her ability to complete a feature!
So, to sum it up...my advice is to skip the short, and focus on the feature. In my No Budget Filmmaking Ultra-Pack, I talk more about this, and discuss HOW you can make that feature for the same budget you would have spent on a short. :)
Now get out there and make a movie!!!
Jason
www.NoBudgetFilmmaking.com
A lot of people ask me about what kind of film they should make. While there are many different kinds of films, and it would take me forever to go through the pros and cons of all of them...there are 2 major types that I want to discuss. Short films and Feature Length films.
Most filmmakers think they HAVE to start out making short films. Others want to start with a short to test their abilities on a smaller scale. But, making a short may not be all it's made out to be.
A lot of film students think that the road to making a feature is paved by short films. They think that if they make a short film, it will get them noticed, and lead to someone offering them a job directing a feature...or it will lead to someone giving them money to make their own feature. I have to say that from what I have seen, this is a rare occurrence.
The reality is that it is very hard to get noticed from a short film. There are thousands of film students spending thousands of dollars making shorts, but are they really getting anything out of it?
Sure, if you make an amazing short, and win a ton of awards, it will make thing easier on you when it comes time to try and raise money...but is it really worth spending all that time and money on a short for that slim chance?
Personally, I think too many people waste time making short films. They do it either because they think they have to...or because they are scared to take the risk of making a feature length movie. The truth is, if you can make a short...you can make a feature. Why not skip the short and go straight for the feature?
The benefits of making a feature way outweigh the benefits of making a short.
For one, there is almost NEVER any money to be made out of a short film. So, if you are going to spend the money, why not put it towards a feature that will be profitable...giving you money to make another film?
You do not HAVE to make a short in order to make a feature!
If you think making a short will get you noticed and suddenly people will be begging you to make a feature for them...good luck. That is a tough road to take.
If you think it is easier to make a short...you may be right. But it isn't that much harder to make a feature. So why not go for it? Besides, if you think people will be impressed with your short and offer you a feature...just think of how impressed they will be that you actually made your own feature?
Who do you think someone would rather give money to? Someone who made an artsy short film...or someone who has successfully completed a feature length movie on a budget?
I don't know about you, but if I was a money guy, I would go for the person who has proven his/her ability to complete a feature!
So, to sum it up...my advice is to skip the short, and focus on the feature. In my No Budget Filmmaking Ultra-Pack, I talk more about this, and discuss HOW you can make that feature for the same budget you would have spent on a short. :)
Now get out there and make a movie!!!
Jason
www.NoBudgetFilmmaking.com
How to Win Love Back With Common Sense
How to win your love back is a topic that I want to talk about today. Too many people do this all wrong. They think that they must aggressively pursue their ex in order to get him or her back. In fact, nothing could be further from the truth. If you want to know how to win love back, follow the advice in this article as closely as possible.
The first thing you need to know in the how to win love back arena is that you do not want to chase your ex.
Too many guys think they must pursue their ex’s. They send hundreds of texts, call at odd hours of the day, and even stalk their ex girlfriend’s home. They send flowers and gifts.
This is wrong, wrong, wrong because it makes you look desperate. Women like Alpha males, not sniveling guys they think are jokes. When you appear desperate, your ex girlfriend will start playing head games with you. She’ll let you come over, and then invite a new guy over too. She’ll pretend she’s interested only to go off in another direction.
And, the more you fall into this trap, the more games she’ll play. This is not the answer to how to win love back.
Instead of chasing her and being desperate, you need to play games with her that make her come crawling to you.
When you are in a group that includes her, flirt with every girl but her. If she has an enemy in the group, pay special attention to that girl. By ignoring your ex, you make her want to come back to you. You are reminding her of all of your charms, but not applying them to her.
It’s a good idea to go out on a date with one of her close friends. Send your ex a text message saying “now that we’re just friends, I wanted your opinion on something. Where should I take Mary to dinner after the big game?” That is sure to make your ex girlfriend jealous and it’s one of the tricks for how to win love back.
Even if you don’t want to play head games with your ex, there is one thing that you can do that may help you in the how to win love back arena. That is, you should be happy.
Girls like to date happy guys. If you work on you rather than focus on her, you have a much better chance getting her back.
Go work out at the gym. Hang with your buddies. Get involved in a hobby you never had time for when you were dating her. Go out on dates. Even if you have to fake being happy initially, you will soon realize that you really are happy.
This way, whether you get the girl back or you move on, you will be a happier person.
And, that is my advice for how to win love back.
For more great relationship tips visit this site:
www.MagicOfMakingUp.com
The first thing you need to know in the how to win love back arena is that you do not want to chase your ex.
Too many guys think they must pursue their ex’s. They send hundreds of texts, call at odd hours of the day, and even stalk their ex girlfriend’s home. They send flowers and gifts.
This is wrong, wrong, wrong because it makes you look desperate. Women like Alpha males, not sniveling guys they think are jokes. When you appear desperate, your ex girlfriend will start playing head games with you. She’ll let you come over, and then invite a new guy over too. She’ll pretend she’s interested only to go off in another direction.
And, the more you fall into this trap, the more games she’ll play. This is not the answer to how to win love back.
Instead of chasing her and being desperate, you need to play games with her that make her come crawling to you.
When you are in a group that includes her, flirt with every girl but her. If she has an enemy in the group, pay special attention to that girl. By ignoring your ex, you make her want to come back to you. You are reminding her of all of your charms, but not applying them to her.
It’s a good idea to go out on a date with one of her close friends. Send your ex a text message saying “now that we’re just friends, I wanted your opinion on something. Where should I take Mary to dinner after the big game?” That is sure to make your ex girlfriend jealous and it’s one of the tricks for how to win love back.
Even if you don’t want to play head games with your ex, there is one thing that you can do that may help you in the how to win love back arena. That is, you should be happy.
Girls like to date happy guys. If you work on you rather than focus on her, you have a much better chance getting her back.
Go work out at the gym. Hang with your buddies. Get involved in a hobby you never had time for when you were dating her. Go out on dates. Even if you have to fake being happy initially, you will soon realize that you really are happy.
This way, whether you get the girl back or you move on, you will be a happier person.
And, that is my advice for how to win love back.
For more great relationship tips visit this site:
www.MagicOfMakingUp.com
Saturday, May 23, 2009
Top Five Criteria Justifying Tonsil Removal
Do you know the importance of tonsils in your life? Well, most of you do not know about their use and function in the body. It helps in the production of antibodies which enhances the immune system. Whenever we suffer from recurrent infections, the most commonly seen practice is tonsil removal. Do you consider these organs small and unwanted? If yes, then you are doing the greatest mistake in your life. When you remove any small part in the body, it has its own harmful effects. In that case when are tonsil removal justified?
For ages researches were being conducted on its removal and their complications by physicians and scientists all over the world. Based on these studies, criteria where tonsil removal is inevitable were listed.
• Its removal is a must when they are so large and obstruct breathing, swallowing or both leading to recurrent infections of the respiratory tract. Before going in for the final step medications should be tried out and see whether the condition of the child can be resolved.
• When you are having recurrent attacks of infection where everyday activities are disrupted in spite of antibiotic treatments.
• Peritonsillar abscess- This condition is also called quinsy, where an abscess is formed around the tonsils causing pain, high temperature and lymphadenopathy. Headache, impaired speech, and drooling always accompanies as secondary symptoms. Tonsil removal is definitely indicated if there is a second attack.
• Tosilloliths- formation of tonsil stones at the back of their mouth is suggestive of its removal.
• Chronic cryptic tonsillitis- The organ is made up of small pits and pockets known as crypts. Often waste products tend to get deposited in these pits which are composed of dead cells and bacteria. Bad breath is often experienced by the patient and recurrent infections are present. Although minor, many people are fed up of their illness and prefers for its removal.
Depending on the intensity of your illness tonsil removal is suggested. It is not necessary for everyone as some give good response to medicines. Surgeries minor or major have their own complications and side effects. Its removal is the final step that one should consider for his illness.
For More info visit:
www.BeatTonsilStones.com
For ages researches were being conducted on its removal and their complications by physicians and scientists all over the world. Based on these studies, criteria where tonsil removal is inevitable were listed.
• Its removal is a must when they are so large and obstruct breathing, swallowing or both leading to recurrent infections of the respiratory tract. Before going in for the final step medications should be tried out and see whether the condition of the child can be resolved.
• When you are having recurrent attacks of infection where everyday activities are disrupted in spite of antibiotic treatments.
• Peritonsillar abscess- This condition is also called quinsy, where an abscess is formed around the tonsils causing pain, high temperature and lymphadenopathy. Headache, impaired speech, and drooling always accompanies as secondary symptoms. Tonsil removal is definitely indicated if there is a second attack.
• Tosilloliths- formation of tonsil stones at the back of their mouth is suggestive of its removal.
• Chronic cryptic tonsillitis- The organ is made up of small pits and pockets known as crypts. Often waste products tend to get deposited in these pits which are composed of dead cells and bacteria. Bad breath is often experienced by the patient and recurrent infections are present. Although minor, many people are fed up of their illness and prefers for its removal.
Depending on the intensity of your illness tonsil removal is suggested. It is not necessary for everyone as some give good response to medicines. Surgeries minor or major have their own complications and side effects. Its removal is the final step that one should consider for his illness.
For More info visit:
www.BeatTonsilStones.com
Mind Blowing Ways to Cure Tonsil Stones
Tonsil stones are annoying and a nuisance because they give the feeling of something getting stuck in the throat leading to difficulty in swallowing. Are you a victim of this dreadful ailment? I have seen that many people suffering from this disease does not know how they are formed? A great majority of them thinks this disease untreatable and incurable. Relax and put your mind at ease because there are ways to cure tonsil stones.
Tonsils play a vital role in our life because it produces antibodies which help in fighting the external pathogens and enhancing the immunity of the body. They are mainly composed of lymphoid tissue which is the prime reason for their importance. In some individuals the tonsils are large and have many pits which are deep. Little by little food particles, dead cells, and mucous from the post nasal discharge gets lodged in these crypts.
Bacteria feed on them and recurrent attacks of infections are caused. Sometimes these matters solidifies and a hard rock like substance is formed which is called tonsillolith or in layman's language tonsil stones. Even though not dangerous they cause discomfort and irritation to a great extent. Are their methods to cure tonsil stones?
Yes, there are techniques to cure tonsil stones. The first step is always making sure that you suffer from this illness. It is very easy to get confirmed because bad breath is a diagnostic symptom of this complaint. Breath is so offensive and resembles to rotten eggs. There are many who try to cure tonsil stones by squeezing and picking at the tonsils with their fingernails. This method helps you to remove the stones but it unhealthy and may lead to secondary infections.
Often it ends up in bleeding and soreness of the tonsils. If you insist on this method make sure that your hands are neat and clean and thoroughly washed using an antibacterial soap. Use a cotton swab to press out the stones so that chances for infection are less. Do not push the stone down your throat by mistake, as it can lead to gagging and worsens the complaint. This method is risky and I would not recommend it to anyone personally.
The best ways to cure tonsil stones are maintaining your oral hygiene which helps in correcting the underlying causes and stops bad breath and formation of new stones. If they are persistent and unresponsive to home treatment consult a doctor as some may require medications. Tonsillectomy is also advised by some physicians to cure tonsil stones permanently.
Prevention is better than cure, so maintain your oral hygiene even after your stone is removed. Brushing your teeth after every meal and rinsing your mouth often is good to prevent accumulations of substances in the tonsils.
A quick review, you can see that stones are not dangerous and there are many methods to cure tonsil stones. I have explained the preventive aspects and their importance.
For More info visit:
www.BeatTonsilStones.com
Tonsils play a vital role in our life because it produces antibodies which help in fighting the external pathogens and enhancing the immunity of the body. They are mainly composed of lymphoid tissue which is the prime reason for their importance. In some individuals the tonsils are large and have many pits which are deep. Little by little food particles, dead cells, and mucous from the post nasal discharge gets lodged in these crypts.
Bacteria feed on them and recurrent attacks of infections are caused. Sometimes these matters solidifies and a hard rock like substance is formed which is called tonsillolith or in layman's language tonsil stones. Even though not dangerous they cause discomfort and irritation to a great extent. Are their methods to cure tonsil stones?
Yes, there are techniques to cure tonsil stones. The first step is always making sure that you suffer from this illness. It is very easy to get confirmed because bad breath is a diagnostic symptom of this complaint. Breath is so offensive and resembles to rotten eggs. There are many who try to cure tonsil stones by squeezing and picking at the tonsils with their fingernails. This method helps you to remove the stones but it unhealthy and may lead to secondary infections.
Often it ends up in bleeding and soreness of the tonsils. If you insist on this method make sure that your hands are neat and clean and thoroughly washed using an antibacterial soap. Use a cotton swab to press out the stones so that chances for infection are less. Do not push the stone down your throat by mistake, as it can lead to gagging and worsens the complaint. This method is risky and I would not recommend it to anyone personally.
The best ways to cure tonsil stones are maintaining your oral hygiene which helps in correcting the underlying causes and stops bad breath and formation of new stones. If they are persistent and unresponsive to home treatment consult a doctor as some may require medications. Tonsillectomy is also advised by some physicians to cure tonsil stones permanently.
Prevention is better than cure, so maintain your oral hygiene even after your stone is removed. Brushing your teeth after every meal and rinsing your mouth often is good to prevent accumulations of substances in the tonsils.
A quick review, you can see that stones are not dangerous and there are many methods to cure tonsil stones. I have explained the preventive aspects and their importance.
For More info visit:
www.BeatTonsilStones.com
Extremely Easy Ways of Removing Tonsil Stones
Tonsilloliths, the word quite big and horrifying but the disease is small and curable. I have seen that even though many of them suffer from this illness, very few know how they are formed. Tonsils consists of pits and pockets known as crypts on its surface, during an infective stage these pits become wider and bigger resulting in debris and mucous from post nasal discharge accumulating in it. Bacteria find their way into this deposited matter and over time period stones are formed. Do not panic as removing tonsil stones are no longer a big task now.
Tonsil stones are barely noticeable if they are small and during an attack of cough it may fall out on its own. But big stones result in extreme discomfort and they cause constant sore throat and recurrent attacks of tonsillitis. In addition to all these chronic bad breath is often associated which has impact on the mind of the person as they feel awkward in the presence of others.
Removing tonsil stones is easy and can be performed at home with a little extra care. Many people have a habit of scraping their tonsils and extracting the stones. But this is not a hygienic method and may cause secondary infection. If you are persistent on using this method, wash your hands using an anti-bacterial soap and dry it thoroughly. Instead of finger nails using a soft brush to rub the part where you feel the stone is lodged which also helps in removing tonsil stones.
Another method of removing tonsil stones is using a cotton swab and squeezing the tonsils till the stones fall out. It is always good to soak the cotton in hot water before doing this technique which prevents cotton strands sticking to the tonsils.
Have you heard of waterpik irrigator? This is high tech device used for removing tonsil stones more accurately. Always check the pressure level before you use this machine as high pressure will lead to damage of the tonsils. Sometimes these stones are too persistent and unresponsive to all these methods, in that case consult a nearby physician and do the necessary treatment. Surgical excision is also done for removing tonsil stones.
For More info visit:
www.BeatTonsilStones.com
Tonsil stones are barely noticeable if they are small and during an attack of cough it may fall out on its own. But big stones result in extreme discomfort and they cause constant sore throat and recurrent attacks of tonsillitis. In addition to all these chronic bad breath is often associated which has impact on the mind of the person as they feel awkward in the presence of others.
Removing tonsil stones is easy and can be performed at home with a little extra care. Many people have a habit of scraping their tonsils and extracting the stones. But this is not a hygienic method and may cause secondary infection. If you are persistent on using this method, wash your hands using an anti-bacterial soap and dry it thoroughly. Instead of finger nails using a soft brush to rub the part where you feel the stone is lodged which also helps in removing tonsil stones.
Another method of removing tonsil stones is using a cotton swab and squeezing the tonsils till the stones fall out. It is always good to soak the cotton in hot water before doing this technique which prevents cotton strands sticking to the tonsils.
Have you heard of waterpik irrigator? This is high tech device used for removing tonsil stones more accurately. Always check the pressure level before you use this machine as high pressure will lead to damage of the tonsils. Sometimes these stones are too persistent and unresponsive to all these methods, in that case consult a nearby physician and do the necessary treatment. Surgical excision is also done for removing tonsil stones.
For More info visit:
www.BeatTonsilStones.com
Cheating Spouses - Resisting Retaliation
When I hear about couples that are cheating on their spouses, my first instinct is to feel for the spouse that doesn't know. You know, the one that is living their life in a utopian-type of existence, misled by the assumption that their spouse is as devoted and faithful to them as they are.
It's a cozy feeling, seeing and reading of other couples infidelity problems, not dreaming for a moment that it could be happening to you.
Until reality bites...
If the reality of infidelity or doubt has bitten your relationship, bite back:
It may be a gradual feeling of unease, a noticed brief moment of eye contact between your spouse and another, a comment out of context by a friend or colleague, a story that doesn't quite add up. But in that brief moment, the foundation of confidence placed in your spouse and marriage starts to crack.
After the initial shock that it could even be happening, many people vow payback, revenge, and one of the more common reactions in terms of payback is the temptation to have an affair in retaliation.
A retaliatory affair would seem the most unlikely thing to do, considering the pain that the first affair caused, but it seems to be an increasing phenomenon, at least from the limited research I have done with members who have kindly offered feedback. To be honest, a retaliatory affair was the last kind of reaction I would have expected.
Sure, the anger is real, as are the feelings of hurt and betrayal, but interestingly many women and men who spoke to me were determined that they wouldn't be seen as victims. Far from it, in fact, and many were determined to retaliate and do it in such a way that their partner may feel some of the hurt that they felt at the time.
Let's be honest. Every one of us have times in our lives when we see someone that we consider to be very good looking, either a beatiful face, a beautiful smile, a beautifully proportioned body, or a confident demeanour that seemed both charismatic and magnetic. Good looking people are all around us. Yet it would never occur to us to take our initial attention or attraction to a person to the point where we would contemplate entering into a sexual relationship with them. After all, being married is a commitment, a promise of fidelity, a vow to honor one another.
We see beauty, but we don't feel the compulsion to act on it.
However when your partner departs from this commitment in such a shocking and hurtful fashion, it leaves many questioning their beliefs, and indeed their fidelity. If their fidelity has resulted in them being cheated on and hurt so badly, surely it is okay to sleep with someone else to 'even up the score,' so to speak?
That co-worker that has made fleeting eye contact with you at the copier machine, the shop assistant that has inadvertently flirted with you, the friend of a friend that has made a point of talking to you at parties and comments on your looks, an ex whose contact details you still have or remember, all of these people are now potential playmates. After all, if it's good enough for your spouse to do it, surely there's nothing wrong with you doing it too?
The one determination of people in this position is that if they are going to have an affair they will do it better and with someone hotter.
Now I'm not saying all victims of cheating end up doing this, because many don't. But the knee-jerk reaction to go out and have an affair as well is a common reaction that many people seriously consider and follow through.
Your first reaction should be to eliminate all doubt:
But does sleeping with someone else really make the infidelity hurt less? Does it make you feel better? Or is it one of those things you do at the time that you later live to regret?
I'm not going to tell you if it's right or wrong, as it's a judgment call that each of you are called to make as you comtemplate the reality of infidelity in your marriage.
But if it is something that you are seriously contemplating, have you given it enough thought? How are you going to feel at the moment you are cheating on your spouse? How are you going to feel after? Can you live with the knowledge and the consequences of your actions?
For many, it's a 'yes.' But for many others, it brings a whole new raft of issues to what is already an emotionally-charged situation.
Interesting thought though. Is retaliation in the form of an affair okay or not? Would it make you feel better or worse?
*******************************************************************
For further advice and information.
How To Catch a Cheating Spouse product is a compilation of quality ebooks covering tips and methods to uncover your cheating spouse to marital advice for couples in crisis. Also included is bonus tracking software Sherlock Pro, which tracks screencaps, websites visited, and keylogs. This ebook and software package is a comprehensive tool for partners that want proof of infidelity or peace of mind. You can learn more about how to catch your cheating spouse at:
http://www.CatchSpouseCheating.com
It's a cozy feeling, seeing and reading of other couples infidelity problems, not dreaming for a moment that it could be happening to you.
Until reality bites...
If the reality of infidelity or doubt has bitten your relationship, bite back:
It may be a gradual feeling of unease, a noticed brief moment of eye contact between your spouse and another, a comment out of context by a friend or colleague, a story that doesn't quite add up. But in that brief moment, the foundation of confidence placed in your spouse and marriage starts to crack.
After the initial shock that it could even be happening, many people vow payback, revenge, and one of the more common reactions in terms of payback is the temptation to have an affair in retaliation.
A retaliatory affair would seem the most unlikely thing to do, considering the pain that the first affair caused, but it seems to be an increasing phenomenon, at least from the limited research I have done with members who have kindly offered feedback. To be honest, a retaliatory affair was the last kind of reaction I would have expected.
Sure, the anger is real, as are the feelings of hurt and betrayal, but interestingly many women and men who spoke to me were determined that they wouldn't be seen as victims. Far from it, in fact, and many were determined to retaliate and do it in such a way that their partner may feel some of the hurt that they felt at the time.
Let's be honest. Every one of us have times in our lives when we see someone that we consider to be very good looking, either a beatiful face, a beautiful smile, a beautifully proportioned body, or a confident demeanour that seemed both charismatic and magnetic. Good looking people are all around us. Yet it would never occur to us to take our initial attention or attraction to a person to the point where we would contemplate entering into a sexual relationship with them. After all, being married is a commitment, a promise of fidelity, a vow to honor one another.
We see beauty, but we don't feel the compulsion to act on it.
However when your partner departs from this commitment in such a shocking and hurtful fashion, it leaves many questioning their beliefs, and indeed their fidelity. If their fidelity has resulted in them being cheated on and hurt so badly, surely it is okay to sleep with someone else to 'even up the score,' so to speak?
That co-worker that has made fleeting eye contact with you at the copier machine, the shop assistant that has inadvertently flirted with you, the friend of a friend that has made a point of talking to you at parties and comments on your looks, an ex whose contact details you still have or remember, all of these people are now potential playmates. After all, if it's good enough for your spouse to do it, surely there's nothing wrong with you doing it too?
The one determination of people in this position is that if they are going to have an affair they will do it better and with someone hotter.
Now I'm not saying all victims of cheating end up doing this, because many don't. But the knee-jerk reaction to go out and have an affair as well is a common reaction that many people seriously consider and follow through.
Your first reaction should be to eliminate all doubt:
But does sleeping with someone else really make the infidelity hurt less? Does it make you feel better? Or is it one of those things you do at the time that you later live to regret?
I'm not going to tell you if it's right or wrong, as it's a judgment call that each of you are called to make as you comtemplate the reality of infidelity in your marriage.
But if it is something that you are seriously contemplating, have you given it enough thought? How are you going to feel at the moment you are cheating on your spouse? How are you going to feel after? Can you live with the knowledge and the consequences of your actions?
For many, it's a 'yes.' But for many others, it brings a whole new raft of issues to what is already an emotionally-charged situation.
Interesting thought though. Is retaliation in the form of an affair okay or not? Would it make you feel better or worse?
*******************************************************************
For further advice and information.
How To Catch a Cheating Spouse product is a compilation of quality ebooks covering tips and methods to uncover your cheating spouse to marital advice for couples in crisis. Also included is bonus tracking software Sherlock Pro, which tracks screencaps, websites visited, and keylogs. This ebook and software package is a comprehensive tool for partners that want proof of infidelity or peace of mind. You can learn more about how to catch your cheating spouse at:
http://www.CatchSpouseCheating.com
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