Do you want to get back together with your ex? Don’t write off the relationship just because she dumped you.
Women are fickle creatures. In 3 out of every 4 break ups, it is the woman who calls it off. But, many times they’re open to re-establishing the relationship. Breaking up may not have been a well thought out decision, but they are loathe to admit they are wrong and come back to you themselves.
Part of your job is to figure out what went wrong and change it. If she was bored in the relationship, you need to spice things up. If she was looking for a flashier guy, a makeover might be in order. And, if you were too needy, you might just need to back off for a time.
Right now, if you want to get back together with ex, you need to show her that you are exactly the kind of guy she wants to date.
One of the ways to get back together with your ex is to show her that you are an in demand kind of guy. Every girl says she wants to be unique. They look for “unique” styles. But you will quickly notice that what they really want is a “unique” look that is just like all of their friends’ looks.
So, to become the in-demand guy, you have to start dating in-demand girls. In fact, dating her close friends will actually make her want to get back together with you.
If you are uncomfortable dating people who might continue to be in your life after you get back together with your ex, you can at least flirt with them. When you see your ex with a pack of her friends, don’t pay any attention to her. Instead, lavish attention on her friends. If she has a particularly plain friend, spend the most time with her. That’s one way to get back together with your ex.
Look at how she reacts to you when other guys are around. When someone puts you down, does she stand up for you? That is a good sign that she is still into you and will welcome you back into her life.
When you want to get back together with your ex, you need to realize that there is a new power relationship at play. You no longer belong to each other exclusively. Instead, you are two independent spheres rotating around the other.
Many guys don’t realize that this power shift has occurred. While they are down in the dumps about the break up, they don’t change their behavior pattern toward their ex. This is a big mistake.
When you want to get back together with your ex, you will take advantage of the shift in power. You will woo her by changing the things that she doesn’t like about you or the relationship, become the in-demand guy that all girls want to date, and be a little bit unavailable to her. If these things don’t work, she probably has moved on and you won’t have much hope of jump starting anything.
However, in almost all cases, because women are fickle creatures, you can get back together with your ex.
For more great relationship tips visit this site:
www.MagicOfMakingUp.com
Sunday, May 31, 2009
Make Money With Google
More in the series by Wade Winger on how you can make money using Google and Clickbank.
-Lesson #2-
Ok, we learned all about affiliate programs in the first lesson.
We now need a way to find the best affiliate products to market.
There are thousands of affiliate programs out there to choose from. Any product you can think of has an affiliate program.
There are affiliate programs for things like books, cars, computer games, computer programs, porn sites, prescription drugs and ebooks. You name it and there is an affiliate program for it.
You can even join an affiliate program for selling property on the moon!! So how do you go about choosing the right programs? Well, there are many factors to looks at.
Here are six characteristics to look at when choosing an affiliate program:
1) High payouts - Would you rather be paid $1 or $20 every time you make a sale? $20 of course!! I like to work with affiliate programs that payout anywhere from $15 - $60 for each customer conversion. Don't get me wrong, there is a time and place for $1 payout programs and as entrepreneurs you should always keep your eyes open for opportunities, but from personal experience, the higher payouts seem to work best for people just starting out.
2) Effective product sales page - Your success as an affiliate depends highly on how effective the sales website is for the affiliate program you belong to. I'm not talking about your personal website; I'm talking about the owners of the affiliate program themselves, the site you are sending people to. If you are sending people to a website that is constructed very poorly and has a low sales conversion rate, you are not going to make any profits. But if you send people from your website to a website that captures the customers attention and effectively conveniences them to buy the product, you will make much more profits per customer.
3) The amount of competition - If there is too much competition in the affiliate program that you join, it will be harder for you to make money. When there are too many affiliates vying for the same customers, the profits that can be made by one individual become less and less. I would say that it's a good idea for beginners to stir away from the really competitive products. You will have a much better time with programs that have relatively low competition. Don't get me wrong, you can compete in any affiliate program but you need to learn certain skills, to turn a profit.
4) Payout Dates - Be sure to check how often the affiliate program will be sending you pay checks. You don't want to be stuck waiting 3-6 months to be paid. I usually like to stick with affiliate programs that pay every 1-2 weeks. Sometimes I will join affiliate programs that pay every month, but anything over one month is just too long to wait for. You have to think about your advertising budget. If you only have enough money to advertise for two weeks, and you get paid every three months, you are going to run out of money to advertise with. The quicker you get paid, the quicker you can take that money and reinvest it to increase your profits.
5) Payout Minimums - Almost every affiliate program has a minimum payout amount. Most of the time affiliates programs will require that you earn $25 - $100 before they will ever send you a check. This is fine, because you should be able to hit this amount easily. If it's more than $300 then I would stir away from that program.
Sometimes you will join an affiliate program and make some money, but you may decide for some reason that that particular program is not working out. If you did not hit the minimum payout then you will never be paid. Another reason to pick a low minimum payout is that it may take you awhile to hit the minimum, so the lower the payout level the quicker you will get your money.
6) In Demand Products - This is a very important thing to look for in affiliate programs. Choose something that people really want and find a way to give it to them. For example: millions of people in the U.S. feel they are overweight, and want to lose that weight.
It's your job to find an affiliate program that fits these peoples needs. Sell them diet pills or workout tapes, even workout equipment. Here's another example: Many people want to find someone to date. Well you've seen all the online dating services. Guess what, most of those have affiliate programs that you can join. Direct a person who wants a date to that dating service website and you will make a nice commission.
You now know what to look for in an affiliate product, so now we need to go find an affiliate product to market.
This is were ClickBank comes into play.
ClickBank is actually an Internet "affiliate network". Affiliate networks combine thousands of Internet affiliate programs into one simple website.
So instead of signing up for numerous affiliate programs, which can be a hassle, you only need to sign up once with a site like ClickBank. This will allow you to have access to over 11,000+ products and services to market.
ClickBank is actually a special type of affiliate network in that it only deals with digital products. When a customer buys through ClickBank, they receive their purchase instantly over the Internet.
So what makes ClickBank so special? Several reasons:
- ClickBank is very easy for beginners to learn
- ClickBank offers many high quality affiliate products to market
- ClickBank offers extremely high commissions (up to 75%)
- Many people are already members of ClickBank
- Getting affiliate links is very simple and fast
- Stats are in real time and can be checked 24/7
- ClickBank sends commission checks every two weeks
To check out the thousands of products that ClickBank offers to affiliate marketers, check out this link:
http://clickbank.com/marketplace
To sign up as a affiliate marketer with ClickBank, check out this
link:
https://ssl.clickbank.net/signup
With ClickBank, you can now scour thousands of affiliate products to market.
End of lesson #2.
To Your Success,
Wade Winger
http://www.GoogleProfits.com
P.S. Google Profits can show you how to find the most profitable
ClickBank products and how you can market them effectivly to make
huge profits. Get started today!
-Lesson #2-
Ok, we learned all about affiliate programs in the first lesson.
We now need a way to find the best affiliate products to market.
There are thousands of affiliate programs out there to choose from. Any product you can think of has an affiliate program.
There are affiliate programs for things like books, cars, computer games, computer programs, porn sites, prescription drugs and ebooks. You name it and there is an affiliate program for it.
You can even join an affiliate program for selling property on the moon!! So how do you go about choosing the right programs? Well, there are many factors to looks at.
Here are six characteristics to look at when choosing an affiliate program:
1) High payouts - Would you rather be paid $1 or $20 every time you make a sale? $20 of course!! I like to work with affiliate programs that payout anywhere from $15 - $60 for each customer conversion. Don't get me wrong, there is a time and place for $1 payout programs and as entrepreneurs you should always keep your eyes open for opportunities, but from personal experience, the higher payouts seem to work best for people just starting out.
2) Effective product sales page - Your success as an affiliate depends highly on how effective the sales website is for the affiliate program you belong to. I'm not talking about your personal website; I'm talking about the owners of the affiliate program themselves, the site you are sending people to. If you are sending people to a website that is constructed very poorly and has a low sales conversion rate, you are not going to make any profits. But if you send people from your website to a website that captures the customers attention and effectively conveniences them to buy the product, you will make much more profits per customer.
3) The amount of competition - If there is too much competition in the affiliate program that you join, it will be harder for you to make money. When there are too many affiliates vying for the same customers, the profits that can be made by one individual become less and less. I would say that it's a good idea for beginners to stir away from the really competitive products. You will have a much better time with programs that have relatively low competition. Don't get me wrong, you can compete in any affiliate program but you need to learn certain skills, to turn a profit.
4) Payout Dates - Be sure to check how often the affiliate program will be sending you pay checks. You don't want to be stuck waiting 3-6 months to be paid. I usually like to stick with affiliate programs that pay every 1-2 weeks. Sometimes I will join affiliate programs that pay every month, but anything over one month is just too long to wait for. You have to think about your advertising budget. If you only have enough money to advertise for two weeks, and you get paid every three months, you are going to run out of money to advertise with. The quicker you get paid, the quicker you can take that money and reinvest it to increase your profits.
5) Payout Minimums - Almost every affiliate program has a minimum payout amount. Most of the time affiliates programs will require that you earn $25 - $100 before they will ever send you a check. This is fine, because you should be able to hit this amount easily. If it's more than $300 then I would stir away from that program.
Sometimes you will join an affiliate program and make some money, but you may decide for some reason that that particular program is not working out. If you did not hit the minimum payout then you will never be paid. Another reason to pick a low minimum payout is that it may take you awhile to hit the minimum, so the lower the payout level the quicker you will get your money.
6) In Demand Products - This is a very important thing to look for in affiliate programs. Choose something that people really want and find a way to give it to them. For example: millions of people in the U.S. feel they are overweight, and want to lose that weight.
It's your job to find an affiliate program that fits these peoples needs. Sell them diet pills or workout tapes, even workout equipment. Here's another example: Many people want to find someone to date. Well you've seen all the online dating services. Guess what, most of those have affiliate programs that you can join. Direct a person who wants a date to that dating service website and you will make a nice commission.
You now know what to look for in an affiliate product, so now we need to go find an affiliate product to market.
This is were ClickBank comes into play.
ClickBank is actually an Internet "affiliate network". Affiliate networks combine thousands of Internet affiliate programs into one simple website.
So instead of signing up for numerous affiliate programs, which can be a hassle, you only need to sign up once with a site like ClickBank. This will allow you to have access to over 11,000+ products and services to market.
ClickBank is actually a special type of affiliate network in that it only deals with digital products. When a customer buys through ClickBank, they receive their purchase instantly over the Internet.
So what makes ClickBank so special? Several reasons:
- ClickBank is very easy for beginners to learn
- ClickBank offers many high quality affiliate products to market
- ClickBank offers extremely high commissions (up to 75%)
- Many people are already members of ClickBank
- Getting affiliate links is very simple and fast
- Stats are in real time and can be checked 24/7
- ClickBank sends commission checks every two weeks
To check out the thousands of products that ClickBank offers to affiliate marketers, check out this link:
http://clickbank.com/marketplace
To sign up as a affiliate marketer with ClickBank, check out this
link:
https://ssl.clickbank.net/signup
With ClickBank, you can now scour thousands of affiliate products to market.
End of lesson #2.
To Your Success,
Wade Winger
http://www.GoogleProfits.com
P.S. Google Profits can show you how to find the most profitable
ClickBank products and how you can market them effectivly to make
huge profits. Get started today!
How to Train Your Cat - Vocalizations. Is Your Cat Noisy?
Kelly Braid has come out with a new ebook called "Purrfectly Trained Cat". Over the next few days she will share with us some or her secrets.
In this section we are going to discuss some of the ways to stop an excessively vocal cat from being so noisy. One of the most annoying things your cat can do, is to constantly meow to get your attention.
In a cat's world, scent and body language are the primary ways to communicate. However, they have learned that we answer much better to vocal sounds so they have employed this method to communicate with us. Therefore, cats "talk" in order to have their desires met.
When cats begin to meow excessively, people try many methods to stop the behavior. Some of these include picking the cat up and petting her, yelling at her, and locking her in a room. These methods all encourage the cat to continue the attention-seeking behavior. If her needs are met, she will continue to do what works. This is similar to a child who cries until they achieve the desired result.
As with most learned behaviors, the unlearning process will take a bit of time. The first thing you must do is ignore the cat when she begins to meow. Until this point, you have reacted and given her some type of attention whenever she vocalized. Now, you must only reward her when she is silent. If she meows do not scream or yell, simply ignore. When she is silent, shower her with attention, treats and praise. This lets her know which behavior is acceptable.
After a week or two if the behavior continues, a quick spray from a water bottle can be used. She is trying to communicate her need to you, and you need to be present in order for her to do so. Therefore, the water shower will be an effective deterrent.
By following the above guidelines, you'll be taking the first steps toward ending the excessive vocalization.
Of course, there is a lot more to it, and I I couldn't possibly lay out the entire system in this email.
Fortunately, it's all laid out for you in my new eBook:
"Purrfectly Trained Cat-Teach Your Cat to Do What YOU Want"
Not only do my methods work great for cats, they're also fun and
pretty easy.
Here's just a taste of what's revealed in this amazing cat training
eBook:
* The things your cat is trying to tell you with his body
language and other forms of communication, so you know how to deal
with his problem
* Types of aggressive behavior and how to change them so they
work for you
* What causes your cat to be scared or stressed and how to fix it
* The absolute best ways to change bad behaviors forever
* How to eliminate litter box problems and make them disappear
once and for all
* Harness training and how to take your indoor cat outside for
a walk safely, with no complaints
* How your cat can effectively use a human toilet, so you can
get rid of the litter box for good
* Step-by-step instructions to easily train your cat to respond
to commands such as sit, stay, lay down, and many others
* Helping your cat get better, including things to look for
that tell you when it's time to go to the vet
* The single most effective way to correct any behavior
* An easy way to keep your cat from being excessively vocal
and that's not nearly all.
Tomorrow I will talk about a multi-cat household and the disruption
that often occurs when one cat has been away for a period of time,
and then returns.
Purrfectly Trained Cat
In this section we are going to discuss some of the ways to stop an excessively vocal cat from being so noisy. One of the most annoying things your cat can do, is to constantly meow to get your attention.
In a cat's world, scent and body language are the primary ways to communicate. However, they have learned that we answer much better to vocal sounds so they have employed this method to communicate with us. Therefore, cats "talk" in order to have their desires met.
When cats begin to meow excessively, people try many methods to stop the behavior. Some of these include picking the cat up and petting her, yelling at her, and locking her in a room. These methods all encourage the cat to continue the attention-seeking behavior. If her needs are met, she will continue to do what works. This is similar to a child who cries until they achieve the desired result.
As with most learned behaviors, the unlearning process will take a bit of time. The first thing you must do is ignore the cat when she begins to meow. Until this point, you have reacted and given her some type of attention whenever she vocalized. Now, you must only reward her when she is silent. If she meows do not scream or yell, simply ignore. When she is silent, shower her with attention, treats and praise. This lets her know which behavior is acceptable.
After a week or two if the behavior continues, a quick spray from a water bottle can be used. She is trying to communicate her need to you, and you need to be present in order for her to do so. Therefore, the water shower will be an effective deterrent.
By following the above guidelines, you'll be taking the first steps toward ending the excessive vocalization.
Of course, there is a lot more to it, and I I couldn't possibly lay out the entire system in this email.
Fortunately, it's all laid out for you in my new eBook:
"Purrfectly Trained Cat-Teach Your Cat to Do What YOU Want"
Not only do my methods work great for cats, they're also fun and
pretty easy.
Here's just a taste of what's revealed in this amazing cat training
eBook:
* The things your cat is trying to tell you with his body
language and other forms of communication, so you know how to deal
with his problem
* Types of aggressive behavior and how to change them so they
work for you
* What causes your cat to be scared or stressed and how to fix it
* The absolute best ways to change bad behaviors forever
* How to eliminate litter box problems and make them disappear
once and for all
* Harness training and how to take your indoor cat outside for
a walk safely, with no complaints
* How your cat can effectively use a human toilet, so you can
get rid of the litter box for good
* Step-by-step instructions to easily train your cat to respond
to commands such as sit, stay, lay down, and many others
* Helping your cat get better, including things to look for
that tell you when it's time to go to the vet
* The single most effective way to correct any behavior
* An easy way to keep your cat from being excessively vocal
and that's not nearly all.
Tomorrow I will talk about a multi-cat household and the disruption
that often occurs when one cat has been away for a period of time,
and then returns.
Purrfectly Trained Cat
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